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					<description><![CDATA[Charlie Kirks Shooter CAUGHT in the Charlie Kirk Assassination The suspect in Charlie Kirk&#8217;s shooting death has been identified as 22-year-old Tyler Robinson. During a Friday news conference, Utah Gov. Spencer J. Cox said Robinson indicated to a family friend that he was connected to the shooting. President Donald Trump initially made the announcement about [&#8230;]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1 class="style-scope ytd-watch-metadata">Charlie Kirks Shooter CAUGHT in the Charlie Kirk Assassination</h1>
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<li><strong>The suspect in Charlie Kirk&#8217;s shooting death has been identified as 22-year-old Tyler Robinson.</strong></li>
<li><strong>During a Friday news conference, Utah Gov. Spencer J. Cox said Robinson indicated to a family friend that he was connected to the shooting.</strong></li>
<li><strong>President Donald Trump initially made the announcement about Robinson being in custody during an interview on FOX &amp; Friends.</strong></li>
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<p data-v-6fc2855c="">Charlie Kirk&#8217;s killer was arrested overnight in Utah, officials announced Friday morning. Tyler Robinson, 22, is in custody with the help of a family member and will face charges for murdering the conservative political activist earlier this week.</p>
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<p data-v-6fc2855c="">Here are the latest updates for Friday, Sept. 12, 2025:</p>
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<h2 data-v-6fc2855c=""><strong>Robinson was engineering major, university says</strong></h2>
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<p data-v-6fc2855c=""><strong>12 p.m. ET:</strong> Utah State University announced Friday that Tyler Robinson, the 22-year-old suspect arrested in the killing of Charlie Kirk, &#8220;briefly attended&#8221; classes there for one semester in 2021.</p>
<p data-v-6fc2855c="">Robinson was a pre-engineering major and took classes consistent with that major for his one semester, Fox News Digital learned.</p>
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<h2 data-v-6fc2855c=""><strong>New details emerge about Tyler Robinson</strong></h2>
<p data-v-6fc2855c=""><strong>11:30 a.m. ET:</strong> The Associated Press reported that Tyler James Robinson was admitted to Utah State University on an academic scholarship, according to a video of him reading his acceptance letter posted to a family member’s social media account. A university spokesperson told the AP he attended the school for only one semester in 2021.</p>
<p data-v-6fc2855c="">Utah state records state Robinson was registered as a voter but not affiliated with either political party.</p>
<h2 data-v-6fc2855c="">Mug shot of Tyler Robinson released</h2>
<p data-v-6fc2855c=""><strong>10:55 a.m. ET:</strong> Officials released a mugshot of Tyler Robinson, the shooting suspect in Charlie Kirk&#8217;s death.</p>
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<p data-v-0dea8073=""><span data-v-0dea8073="">Booking photos of Tyler Robinson (Fox News)</span></p>
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<h2 data-v-6fc2855c=""><strong>Utah governor says Kirk assassination suspect is believed to have acted alone</strong></h2>
<p data-v-6fc2855c=""><strong>10:45 a.m. ET: </strong>Utah Gov. Spencer J. Cox says shooting suspect Tyler Robinson is believed to have acted alone, and the Charlie Kirk investigation is ongoing despite Robinson&#8217;s arrest.</p>
<h2 data-v-6fc2855c=""><strong>FBI Director Kash Patel shares timeline of investigation</strong></h2>
<p data-v-6fc2855c=""><strong>10:30 a.m. ET: </strong>The first FBI agents arrived on the scene at Utah Valley University some 16 minutes after Kirk was shot on Wednesday, FBI Director Kash Patel said at the news conference.</p>
<p data-v-6fc2855c="">The bureau released the first photos of the suspect on Thursday morning, followed by the announcement of a cash reward and then the release of video of the suspect climbing down from the roof of a campus building and running away.</p>
<p data-v-6fc2855c="">&#8220;Just last night, the suspect was taken into custody at 10 p.m. local time,&#8221; Patel announced.</p>
<h2 data-v-6fc2855c=""><strong>Utah governor says Kirk’s assassination ‘is an attack on all of us’</strong></h2>
<p data-v-6fc2855c=""><strong>10:26 a.m. ET:</strong> Utah Gov. Spencer J. Cox said some people have asked why there have been so many resources dedicated to investigating Kirk’s killing when there’s violence around the country, but the governor said it is &#8220;much bigger than an attack on an individual. It is an attack on all of us.&#8221;</p>
<p data-v-6fc2855c="">The Republican said Kirk’s killing is &#8220;an attack on the American experiment&#8221; and values, and &#8220;cuts to the very foundation of who we are.&#8221;</p>
<h2 data-v-6fc2855c=""><strong>Details of messages on bullet casings revealed</strong></h2>
<p data-v-6fc2855c=""><strong>10:25 a.m. ET: </strong>Bullet casings discovered by authorities had several inscriptions engraved on them, Utah Gov. Spencer J. Cox said. The casing that had been fired read: &#8220;notices bulges OwO what’s this?&#8221;</p>
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<li class="article-ct" data-v-03e8ff79=""><span data-v-03e8ff79="">Cox said there were three unfired casings:</span></li>
<li class="article-ct" data-v-03e8ff79=""><span data-v-03e8ff79="">One read, &#8220;hey fascist! catch!&#8221; with an up arrow symbol, right arrow symbol, and three down arrow symbols.</span></li>
<li class="article-ct" data-v-03e8ff79=""><span data-v-03e8ff79="">Another one read: &#8220;oh bella ciao bella ciao bella ciao ciao ciao,&#8221; Cox said.</span></li>
<li class="article-ct" data-v-03e8ff79=""><span data-v-03e8ff79="">The third fired casing read: &#8220;if you read this you are gay lmao.&#8221;</span></li>
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<h2 data-v-6fc2855c=""><strong>Kirk assassination suspect indicated to a family friend that he was connected to the shooting</strong></h2>
<p data-v-6fc2855c=""><strong>10:15 a.m. ET: </strong>Utah Gov. Spencer J. Cox opened the news conference on the latest developments in Charlie Kirk’s assassination with the statement, &#8220;We got him.&#8221;</p>
<p data-v-6fc2855c="">Cox told reporters that Kirk assassination suspect Tyler Robinson indicated to a family friend that he was connected to the shooting.</p>
<h2 data-v-6fc2855c=""><strong>The president talked about learning the news of Kirk’s assassination</strong></h2>
<p data-v-6fc2855c=""><strong>9:50 a.m. ET: </strong>Near the end of his Fox News interview, President Donald Trump said he’d been holding a meeting about building the new White House ballroom when his aides interrupted.</p>
<p data-v-6fc2855c="">&#8220;They came in and they said, ‘Charlie Kirk is dead.’ I didn’t know what they meant. I said, ‘What do you mean, dead?’&#8221; Trump said.</p>
<p data-v-6fc2855c="">&#8220;‘Charlie Kirk was shot.’ And they thought it was dead because it was so horrific.&#8221;</p>
<p data-v-6fc2855c="">Trump said he swiftly ended his meeting. &#8220;I just told these people, &#8220;Get out, you gotta go.&#8221;</p>
<h2 data-v-6fc2855c=""><strong>Suspect in custody in connection with Charlie Kirk shooting is 22-year-old from Utah, AP source says</strong></h2>
<p data-v-6fc2855c=""><strong>9:25 a.m. ET:</strong> The suspect in custody in connection with the assassination of Charlie Kirk is a 22-year-old from Utah, a law enforcement official told The Associated Press.</p>
<p data-v-6fc2855c="">Authorities have identified the suspect as Tyler Robinson, said the official, who spoke on the condition of anonymity because they were not authorized to discuss the ongoing investigation.</p>
<h2 data-v-6fc2855c="">A news conference is scheduled with the latest on Charlie Kirk investigation</h2>
<p data-v-6fc2855c=""><strong>9 a.m. ET: </strong>State and federal officials in Utah are planning to hold a news conference on the investigation.</p>
<p data-v-6fc2855c="">Utah Gov. Spencer Cox and Public Safety Commissioner Beau Mason, FBI Director Kash Patel and FBI Special Agent in Charge Robert Bohls are expected to attend.</p>
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<p data-v-0dea8073=""><span data-v-0dea8073="">Suspect Tyler Robinson, left, and Charlie Kirk.</span></p>
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<h2 data-v-6fc2855c="">Trump says Charlie Kirk shooting suspect in custody</h2>
<p data-v-6fc2855c=""><strong>8:15 a.m. ET: </strong>Trump confirmed the news during a Friday morning interview with FOX &amp; Friends.</p>
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<p style="text-align: center;" data-v-6fc2855c=""><strong>&#8220;I think, with a high degree of certainty, we have him in custody, right in custody. Everyone did a great job,&#8221; Trump said. </strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;" data-v-6fc2855c=""><strong>&#8220;I just heard about it five minutes before I walked in. As I&#8217;m walking in, they said, &#8216;Looking real good.&#8217; They have the person that they wanted.&#8221;</strong></p>
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<p data-v-6fc2855c="">Sources told FOX News Friday that the suspected shooter was taken into custody in Southern Utah.</p>
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<p data-v-6fc2855c="">Federal investigators and state officials on Thursday had released photos and a video of the person they believe is responsible. Kirk was shot as he spoke to a crowd gathered in a courtyard at Utah Valley University in Orem.</p>
<p data-v-6fc2855c="">More than 7,000 leads and tips had poured in, officials said. Authorities have yet to publicly name the suspect or cite a motive in the killing, the latest act of political violence to convulse the United States.</p>
<h2 data-v-6fc2855c=""><strong>Video shows alleged gunman fleeing the scene</strong></h2>
<p data-v-ec26887a="" data-v-6fc2855c="">Dig deeper:</p>
<p data-v-6fc2855c="">Law enforcement showed new video during a news conference on Thursday evening showing the alleged gunman fleeing from the scene after Kirk was shot.</p>
<p data-v-6fc2855c="">In the video, a person wearing dark clothing is seen running across a rooftop and then climbing down the side. He is then seen running away from the scene.</p>
<h2 data-v-6fc2855c="">Who was Charlie Kirk?</h2>
<p data-v-ec26887a="" data-v-6fc2855c="">The backstory:</p>
<p data-v-6fc2855c="">Kirk was the founder and executive director of Turning Point USA. Turning Point was founded in suburban Chicago in 2012 by Kirk, then 18, and William Montgomery, a tea party activist, to proselytize on college campuses for low taxes and limited government.</p>
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<p data-v-6fc2855c="">Kirk appeared alongside Trump on stage at political events, and was also a frequent commentator on Fox News, CNBC, and FOX Business News. He was the youngest speaker at the 2016 Republican National Convention.</p>
<p data-v-6fc2855c="">Kirk played a major role in Trump’s 2024 presidential campaign. He was credited with turning out the younger vote for Trump.</p>
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<p class="group-source-paragraph" data-v-4fbf7207=""><b data-v-4fbf7207="">The <a href="https://www.livenowfox.com/news/trump-charlie-kirk-shooting-suspect-custody" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Source</a>:</b> Information for this story was provided by LIVENOW, and the Associated Press.  <strong>This story was reported from Washington, D.C</strong></p>
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<p class="EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao MvWXB TjIXL aGjvy ebVHC ">Authorities have taken into custody the person they suspect of shooting and killing conservative activist Charlie Kirk on Wednesday at a Utah university campus event.</p>
<p class="EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy ">Tyler Robinson, 22, was taken into custody in St. George, Utah, on Friday, authorities and sources told ABC News.</p>
<p class="EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy ">Robinson&#8217;s father recognized him as the person being sought by police after authorities distributed photographs.</p>
<p class="EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy ">The father initially told Robinson to turn himself in. Robinson initially said no, but later changed his mind, officials said.</p>
<p class="EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy ">The father then called a youth pastor, who is also a U.S. Marshals task force officer. The officer advised the father to have Robinson stay in place.</p>
<p class="EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy ">At a press conference on Friday, Utah Gov. Spencer Cox said Robinson had become more political in recent years, and engaged in a conversation with a family member about Kirk&#8217;s visit to the Utah Valley University campus the night before.</p>
<p class="EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy ">Cox also described what was engraved on the casings found on the scene.</p>
<p class="EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy ">The first casing, according to Cox, said &#8220;Notices Bulge OWO what&#8217;s this??&#8221;</p>
<p class="EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy ">The other three unfired casing said: &#8220;Hey fascist! CATCH!&#8221; with an arrow symbol pointing up, then to the right, and then three arrows pointing down, &#8220;O Bella ciao, Bella ciao, Bella ciao, Ciao, ciao!,&#8221; and &#8220;If you read this, you are GAY Lmao.&#8221;</p>
<p>When law enforcement identified Robinson, they also interviewed Robinson&#8217;s roommate who showed them a message between Robinson and his roommate.</p>
<p class="EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy ">&#8220;The content of these messages included messages affiliated with the contact Tyler, stating a need to retrieve a rifle from a drop point, leaving the rifle in a bush,&#8221; Cox said. &#8220;Messages related to a to visually watching the area where a rifle was left, and a message referring to having left the rifle wrapped in a towel. The messages also referred to engraving bullets and a mention of a scope and the rifle being unique. Messages from the contact Tyler also mentioned that he had changed outfits.&#8221;</p>
<p class="EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy ">Cox said Robinson arrived on campus driving a gray Dodge Challenger, which matched his vehicle he arrived in on campus.</p>
<p class="EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy ">He also thanked Robinson&#8217;s family, &#8220;who did the right thing.&#8221;</p>
<p class="EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy ">FBI Director Kash Patel said that law enforcement caught Robinson within 33 hours of the shooting and was on scene within 16 minutes.</p>
<p class="EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy ">&#8220;This is a very much an ongoing investigation, as the governor said, and we will continue to work with state and local authorities to develop the investigation to provide them the evidence they need for their ongoing prosecutions,&#8221; Patel said.</p>
<p>Authorities and a former FBI agent previously said they believed the subject to be a college-aged individual with an apparent proficiency in handling a high-powered rifle and likely knew the layout of the university where the homicide occurred.</p>
<p class="EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy ">President Donald Trump initially announced the arrest, stating on &#8220;Fox and Friends&#8221; on Friday morning, &#8220;I think with high degree of certainty, we have him in custody.&#8221;</p>
<p class="EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy ">During a news conference on Thursday evening, state and federal officials released video of the person of interest jumping down from the roof of a building on the campus.</p>
<p class="EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy ">Beau Mason, commissioner of the Utah Department of Public Safety, said the suspect was wearing &#8220;distinct clothing&#8221; that could help in his identification, including Converse sneakers.</p>
<p class="EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy ">He said the person seen in the video jumping from the roof left shoe impressions and a palm print.</p>
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<p class="EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy ">&#8220;We are investing everything we have into this and we will catch this individual,&#8221; Mason said at the news conference.</p>
<p class="EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy ">Authorities had received more than 7,000 tips and leads and completed some 200 interviews, Utah Gov. Spencer Cox said.</p>
<p class="EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy ">During a news conference on Thursday morning, Robert Bohls, special agent in charge of the FBI&#8217;s Salt Lake City field office, said investigators believe they have recovered the weapon used in what the governor of Utah on Wednesday called a &#8220;political assassination.&#8221;</p>
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<p class="EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy ">Bohls said the weapon, a high-powered bolt-action rifle, was found discarded in a wooded area near Utah Valley University (UVU) in Orem, and is being analyzed at an FBI laboratory for any clues that can identify the gunman.</p>
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<p class="EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy ">More specifically, multiple law enforcement sources with knowledge of the investigation told ABC News that the weapon is an older model imported Mauser .30-06 caliber bolt-action rifle that was found wrapped in a towel in a wooded area near the school. The sources said a spent cartridge was discovered in the chamber of the gun.</p>
<p class="EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy ">The gun and cartridges recovered are to be flown to the FBI&#8217;s main laboratory in Quantico, Virginia, for the most technologically advanced forensic analysis, law enforcement sources told ABC News. The focus is to look for any latent fingerprints and DNA, the sources said.</p>
<p class="EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy ">Investigators also collected a footwear impression, a palm print and forearm prints for analysis, Bohls said.</p>
<p class="EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy ">Mason said that investigators are also studying &#8220;good video footage&#8221; of the shooter that they have used to track his movements before and after the shooting.</p>
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<p class="EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy ">Following Thursday&#8217;s news conference, the FBI in Salt Lake City released surveillance images of the person of interest wanted in connection with the shooting. The images show a person who appears to be a white male, wearing all dark clothing, including a dark long-sleeved collarless top with what appears to be an image on the front that includes an American flag. The man in the images is also wearing a dark ball cap and sunglasses.</p>
<p class="EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy ">The FBI announced a $100,000 reward is being offered for information leading to the capture of the suspect.</p>
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<p class="EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy ">Mason said investigators believe the suspect arrived at the UVU campus at 11:52 a.m. local time, about 28 minutes before Kirk, the <a class="zZygg UbGlr iFzkS qdXbA WCDhQ DbOXS tqUtK GpWVU iJYzE " dir="ltr" href="https://abcnews.go.com/Politics/charlie-kirks-influence-reach-helped-propel-trump-office/story?id=125452473" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-testid="prism-linkbase">CEO and co-founder</a> of the conservative grass roots organization Turning Point USA, was shot. He said the deadly shot was fired from a building a substantial distance from where Kirk was speaking to a crowd, authorities estimate was about 3,000 people. He did not disclose which building the shooter fired from.</p>
<p class="EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy ">&#8220;We have tracked his movements onto the campus, through stairwells, up to the roof, across the roof to the shooting location,&#8221; Mason said. &#8220;After the shooting, we were able to track his movements as he moved to the other side of the building, jumped off of the building, and fled off of the campus into a neighborhood.&#8221;</p>
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<p class="EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy ">He said investigators combed the neighborhood for the suspect and contacted residents with doorbell cameras to analyze.</p>
<p class="EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy ">&#8220;The individual appears to be of college age,&#8221; said Mason, adding that the person of interest &#8220;blended in well with the college institution.&#8221;</p>
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<p class="EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy ">Brad Garrett, a retired FBI agent and an ABC News contributor, said the evidence investigators have shared so far paints a picture of a suspect who planned the shooting down to the last detail, including discarding the possible murder weapon along his escape path.</p>
<p class="EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy ">&#8220;He probably did that [because] he didn&#8217;t want to be seen carrying a weapon, running through a neighborhood, or walking through a neighborhood,&#8221; Garrett said.</p>
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<p class="EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy ">Garrett said the discovery of the weapon is a major clue that will give investigators additional leads to track down.</p>
<p class="EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy ">&#8220;Where did it come from? It could very well be registered or purchased by this shooter. We&#8217;ll have to see,&#8221; Garrett said. &#8220;Was it stolen? Whatever it might be, the ATF [the federal Bureau of Alcohol, Tobacco, Firearms and Explosives] will help them immediately, and they probably already know what that is.&#8221;</p>
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<div>Garrett said the discovery of the killer&#8217;s palm print can also be helpful.</div>
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<p class="EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy ">&#8220;If he&#8217;s ever had a full set of prints, where you print the entire hand, let&#8217;s say he&#8217;d been in the military or some aspect of the government or a contractor, they may have those,&#8221; Garrett said. &#8220;That&#8217;s a long shot, but they may have those.&#8221;</p>
<p class="EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy ">Garrett said the distance from where the shot was fired could also shed light on the identity of the gunman.</p>
<p class="EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy ">&#8220;My guess is &#8230; a scope and a tripod would have helped him a lot for steadiness, but the real key is if he was able, and sadly did, fire one shot that killed Charlie Kirk, that&#8217;s showing some proficiency because it&#8217;s very difficult to have the breathing and the concentration to pull off one shot like that and that&#8217;s what killed the person,&#8221; Garrett said. &#8220;Does that suggest prior training? Maybe. It certainly suggests somebody who&#8217;s been practicing a lot with this weapon or some weapons just like this.&#8221;</p>
<p class="EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy ">Garrett said investigators are likely going to every gun range and gun shop in the area to determine if the gunman had visited them.</p>
<p class="EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC eTIW sUzSN ">&#8220;The concern obviously as time goes on &#8230; did he leave the area? If he&#8217;s smart, then he did,&#8221; Garrett said. &#8220;But many times, these kinds of shooters don&#8217;t do that.&#8221; <a href="https://abcnews.go.com/US/tyler-robinson-charlie-kirk-suspect-shooter-utah/story?id=125474359" target="_blank" rel="noopener">source</a></p>
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					<description><![CDATA[How To Become A High Value Man In 2022 the feminism has grown to overwhelming proportions and society has raised men without dignity, self respect, respect for others that respect them, correction to those who do not respect them. A Man must have his balls and find his direction! You can read all the reading [&#8230;]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1 class="entry-title" style="text-align: center;">How To Become A High Value Man</h1>
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<p>In 2022 the feminism has grown to overwhelming proportions and society has raised men without dignity, self respect, respect for others that respect them, correction to those who do not respect them. A Man must have his balls and find his direction! You can read all the reading your want on sites like this, at some point you MUST TAKE ACTION. Life will gladly pass you by, hand you nothing, leave you stuck and if all you can do is whine and cry and ask for government permanent assistance you are in the hopeless stage. This is correctable but you need to raise yourself esteem if this is the case.</p>
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<h2><strong>Self Esteem &#8211; The foundation of a High Value Man</strong></h2>
<p>Self esteem is the foundation of all humans treatment of oneself and therefor will determine how life will turn out for them.  Not many are born with high self-esteem, many who have it since youth had it from a talent that was much greater than their peers. Mine was computer science in 1984 when I was 7 I won 1st place in Computer Science.  Back then it was an Apple IIc and the language was BASIC, just a blinking little cursor.  I wrote an adventure video game that many kids ended up enjoying while at Page School in Hancock Park, Ca. Year after year I took the trophy&#8217;s for being #1 with the NERD BOX as many called it back then. I also played sports, was a very avid baseball player.  I have many trophy&#8217;s for 1st &amp; 2nd place in baseball back when WE HAD TO EARN THEM, participation awards did NOT EXIST! This achievements allowed my inner self to grow.  The schools were always fair and chose different Team captains, I was always chosen in the Top 3.  This subconscious observation formed my naturally take on leadership roles within my peer base.</p>
<p>Everyone is great at something, so great that others are not easily competing in that category.  The Lord, God gave us ALL TALENTS, many never search so many never find.  It is your job to your mental health, happiness and self esteem to dig deep for this search if your have not found YOUR TALENT.  Now I have guided many others into helping themselves through God and believing your can change.  Self Esteem and Good feelings come from our creator, he gives us all we need.  Fear is produced from evil, one who has NO TRUST in God will not have courage.  Getting rid of negative people around you, negative environments, haters, soul draining people need to be removed.  If they are family I understand its hard.  Find space fix your first! dealing with others insanity will be 100X easier when your do A LITTLE HOUSE CLEANING WITH YOURSELF!</p>
<p>Be good to you! seriously! treat your body and mind like you care! Exercise, eat right, abstain from negative substances that chemically alter your brain long after their use like drugs and alcohol.  Quiet time to search mentally and Exercise will help build good emotions and chemistry.  Prayer will increase this, quietly speaking to your creator in your mind in a quiet room brings enormous peace.  Like I said positive feelings are from our creator.  None of this works overnight so don&#8217;t expect this too. I am not selling this to you so understand it takes time and I am being honest!</p>
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<h2>Get over your past</h2>
<p>We all got that past, all of us&#8230; Even judges DA&#8217;s priests, etc&#8230; We all have a past. Never let that be the reason you cannot change or rethink things.  If you knew half the path life threw at me you would not want these shoes. The self esteem story above was one of the highlights.  Everyone&#8217;s life has the less favorable happen to it.  I will tell you that once I was able to overcome my adversities I was able to build 2 very successful companies and I never have to worry about money.</p>
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<h2>Find Positive Replacement for Negative</h2>
<p>I believe in God praying and little time outs to think good things is good for you! Spending my time taking care of my work and pets which keeps me mentally sharp and physically up and moving.  I exercise daily 300 pushups and eat organic food to absorb the most possible nutrients and least chemicals! A healthy body produces healthy chemistry, fights cancer, makes your body work better (men you know) and you can protect your family much easier being spiritually, mentally and physically in shape.</p>
<ol>
<li>The Basics to Male High-Value Traits</li>
<li>He Is Emotionally Intelligent</li>
<li>He Has a Purpose</li>
<li>He Takes Care of Himself</li>
<li>He Has High Self-Esteem</li>
<li>He Generates His Own Self-Esteem</li>
<li>He Is Assertive</li>
<li>He Knows Power Dynamics</li>
<li>He Is Honest To His Own Value System</li>
<li>He Has A Growth Mindset</li>
<li>He Takes Responsibility</li>
<li>A Man With Purpose &#8211; Finds Passion, Chases Passion</li>
<li>Demonstrate Resilience</li>
<li>Communicate Clear &amp; Well</li>
<li>Foster Healthy Relationships</li>
<li>Gain Valuable Resources &amp; Connections</li>
<li>Be Consistent, Discipline is the KEY TO SUCCESS</li>
<li>Command Respect with your Presence.</li>
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<h1><span id="The_Basics_to_Male_High-Value_Traits">The Basics to Male High-Value Traits</span></h1>
<p>“It’s not enough to be a high-value man; you have to know how to be one.” You might have heard this phrase before, but what does it really mean? In order to answer that question, we’ve put together a list of 24 ways in which men can raise their value as attractive individuals. They aren’t easy, but they are manageable and they will help you achieve your ultimate goal. First off, take the time to read through this list.  This article leverages sound psychology to get to the core of what makes a high-quality man. Every single trait directly affects personality or, more or less indirectly, allows the individual to acquire important life assets such as status, resources, mates, or friends.To keep the list concise, the traits are high-level and can be broken down into further subsets.</p>
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<h2><span id="1_He_Is_Emotionally_Intelligent" style="color: #ff6600;">He Is Emotionally Intelligent</span></h2>
<p>Emotional intelligence, as defined by Goleman and Tradberry,  includes many important personality traits that make people successful both in life and in relationships.</p>
<p>It includes:</p>
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<li><strong>Self-awareness: </strong>one’s own emotions, drives, personality, passions</li>
<li><strong>Self-management: </strong>deferring pleasure, staying power, grit</li>
<li><strong>Social awareness: </strong>other people’s emotions and social dynamics</li>
<li><strong>Relationship management: </strong>building and managing positive relationships</li>
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<p>Although some psychologists contest the existence of emotional intelligence as a measurable trait, we can all agree that the above subsets of the emotional intelligence trait do exist and that they vary from person to person.</p>
<p>All of the above are important qualities for a high-value man because they heavily influence his ability to acquire social status, move forward in life, develop as a man and, finally, effectively relate with others. This includes his ability to acquire friends, gain allies, and develop healthy relationships with women.</p>
<h3>Self Awareness + Self Management</h3>
<p>Some people get emotional intelligence all wrong.</p>
<p>They think it’s some touchy-feely approach to life, sitting on a mat and doing yoga, crying, or being “vulnerable“.</p>
<p>But it’s not.<br />
Self-awareness and self-management are what differentiate men who meander around life from those who know where they’re going.</p>
<p>When you have self-awareness you don’t go around asking “what’s my passion” your whole life long.<br />
Because <strong>self-aware men <em>know</em> what their passions are. And with self-management, they work to get there</strong>.</p>
<p>That’s the N.1 cluster of traits of a high-quality man: personal drive, the ability to identify what they want to achieve with their drive, and the mental faculties to draft a plan, learn along the way, adjust, and stay the course.</p>
<p>Knowing what you want sets, high-quality men, apart from the masses that follow what <em>others</em> want them to do.<br />
And self-management, without mincing words, is what differentiates the bums from the high achievers of this world.</p>
<p>Low-quality men who go nowhere chase the immediate high of booze and drugs, without any regard for tomorrow (and for themselves).<br />
High achievers instead work their way to the top by deferring pleasure and doing what needs to be done.</p>
<h3>Social Awareness + Relationship Management</h3>
<p>Some people think this is about long talks and hand-holding.</p>
<p>Which it might as well be when the situation calls for it.<br />
But it’s also <em>much</em> more.</p>
<p>Social awareness is the equivalent of self-awareness applied to social situations. It allows high-quality men to understand the social dynamics around them. Who’s in charge, who’s confident, who’s chasing whom and who is submissive, and who counts for nothing.</p>
<p>Social awareness also helps men correctly tailor their behavior to the environment and the situation, forming the basis of charm, charisma, and everything else related to social skills.</p>
<p>Relationship management leverages social awareness to build a network of positive and value-adding relationships.</p>
<p>These are all traits you can increase with focus.<br />
In a way, you could see this whole website as a big platform to increase your emotional intelligence.</p>
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<h2><span id="2_He_Has_a_Purpose" style="color: #ff6600;">He Has a Purpose</span></h2>
<p>When a man knows what he wants and likes, then it only takes a minimum amount of drive to develop a purpose.</p>
<p>A purpose, in Simon Sinek’s words, means a man has a WHY.</p>
<p>And when a man knows his WHY he moves through life with confidence and purpose. He displays the charismatic leadership qualities of those who seem to know their paths, even when it’s dark and difficult.<br />
It’s especially captivating for those who <em>don’t</em> know where they’re going which, of course, is the vast majority.</p>
<p>A purpose is what differentiates the men spending their evening watching football and drinking beer from those who work and plot to move ahead in life.</p>
<h3>Example: James Bond</h3>
<p>James Bond is so charismatic and attractive to women also because he always seems to be on a bigger pursuit:</p>
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<h3>Reversal of Purpose: When It’s <em>Too</em> Focused</h3>
<p>A relentless drive to achieve a certain goal will definitely make it more likely you will achieve that goal.</p>
<p>But, depending on your goal, it can come at the cost of the overall personality.<br />
The stereotype of the crazy genius with bad air and a messy place is the tale of a man with <em>too</em> single-minded drive.<br />
And you can already see the limitations there.</p>
<p>Could you have a conversation with someone who lives and breathes for only, say, black holes research?<br />
Would such a man fare well in a crowd of socialites, at an art gallery, or a housewarming party?<br />
Exactly, he would be out of place and sticking out like a sore thumb.</p>
<p>Could he manage a happy relationship?<br />
Hardly.<br />
Too driven people also often don’t make for good relationship partners (see Einstein), friends, or even conversation partners.</p>
<p>To be a high-quality man, you also need some balance.<br />
And if your life goal does not include people, you also need to develop people skills to become a high-quality -and happier- man.</p>
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<h2><span id="3_He_Takes_Care_of_Himself" style="color: #ff6600;">He Takes Care of Himself</span></h2>
<p>Driven men with a purpose look at themselves as if they were machines.</p>
<p>And they have the mindset that the more they take care of the machine, the farther they will go.</p>
<p>Also, they know how things work, and they know that the dichotomy of “being or appearing” is nonsense.<br />
The two feed into each other. Everyone judges the book also from its cover, so you also need to take care of that book cover.</p>
<p>So high-quality men always:</p>
<ul>
<li>Eat well</li>
<li>Exercise</li>
<li>Keep learning and investing in themselves.</li>
</ul>
<p>High-quality men are like a high-quality wine.<br />
You meet them today and they’re good. You stick with them and tomorrow they’re very good. You stick with them until the day after tomorrow and they’re great.</p>
<h3>… And Of People Around, Because They Got Leadership Qualities</h3>
<p>Equally important, high-quality men take responsibility for the people around them as well.</p>
<p><strong>Taking responsibility for things and people around is what turns high-quality men into high-quality leaders.</strong></p>
<p>Simon Sinek says that taking care of people is the most important trait of leadership.<br />
And, contrary to high-quality women, leadership qualities are a must for high-quality men.</p>
<h2><span id="4_He_Has_High_Self-Esteem" style="color: #ff6600;">He Has High Self-Esteem</span></h2>
<p>Attention here:</p>
<p>It’s <em>self-esteem</em>, not confidence.<br />
Self-esteem is different.</p>
<p>Confidence ebbs and flows depending on your results and skills in a given field. But self-esteem stays.<br />
Confidence is founded on strengths and results, while self-esteem encompasses losses and weakness.</p>
<h2><span id="5_He_Generates_His_Own_Self-Esteem" style="color: #ff6600;">He Generates His Own Self-Esteem</span></h2>
<p>Why is this important?</p>
<p><strong>Because as long as you depend on external forces to prop up your ego and self-esteem, you will always be <em>dependent</em> on those external forces.</strong></p>
<p>And, of course, dependence is the root cause of all potential weaknesses.</p>
<p>Now, granted, few people if any can reach a level of being <em>completely</em> independent of results, the external environment, and other people’s opinions.</p>
<p>But high-quality men have much stronger control of their own self-esteem than most other men.<br />
I call this “the antifragile-ego“.</p>
<p>Men with an antifragile ego enjoy more confidence, more internal strength, and more emotional resilience in the face of adversities.</p>
<p>Since a man with an antifragile does not build his self-esteem around other people’s approval, he is more confident in his opinion. Even when they are unpopular.</p>
<p>These <strong>high-quality men are not afraid of standing up for what they believe in because they don’t need your approval</strong>.<br />
They look like they have stronger inner conviction than anyone else, and everyone looks up to people with inner conviction.<br />
<em>Especially</em> in times of uncertainty. They are our rock in the hurricane.</p>
<h2><span id="6_He_Is_Assertive"><span style="color: #ff6600;">He Is Assertive</span></span></h2>
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<h3><em><span style="color: #0000ff;">Alphas &amp; Sigmas Will definitely be men of much higher value, sigmas holding the crown as they are tied to moral law over popularity, but both men equally posses high value traits </span></em></h3>
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<p>learn more about their differences psychologically here: <strong><a href="https://goodshepherdmedia.net/alpha-vs-sigma-the-dominant-sigma-male/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Alpha vs Sigma: The Dominant Sigma Male</a></strong></p>
<p>Assertiveness is the sweet spot that allows the high-quality man to:</p>
<ul>
<li>Speak up for his rights, without undermining others’</li>
<li>Expect and demand fair treatment, while treating others respectfully</li>
<li>Seek power, while respecting others’ right to self-determination</li>
</ul>
<p>The high-quality man adopts this mantra of assertive communication:</p>
<blockquote><p>Say what you mean, mean you what you say, without being mean</p></blockquote>
<p>In contrast, the passive man is too afraid to speak and enforce his boundaries, and that puts him in a weak position in life. Whenever the passive man meets bullies and manipulators, he lets them take advantage of him.</p>
<p>And the aggressive man instead <em>takes</em> advantage of others’ lack of power and assertiveness.<br />
He <em>hides</em> behind a facade of “honesty” and “getting things done”, but it’s just a cover-up for bullying.</p>
<h3>He Has a Secure Attachment Style</h3>
<p>When a man has a secure attachment style he is emotionally mature.</p>
<p>Men with a secure attachment style are comfortable with intimacy.<br />
They are not afraid of loving, of opening up, and at the same time, they are not afraid of abandonment.</p>
<p>Men with an avoidant or anxious attachment style find it difficult to maintain long and strong relationships.</p>
<h4>Vulnerability</h4>
<p>Vulnerability is a high-quality trait because it highlights the courage of being oneself.<br />
Including the flaws.</p>
<p>Truly vulnerable men step out of the fakeness rat race and are more likely to achieve a contagiously soothing inner confidence.</p>
<p>Vulnerability also makes sure that:</p>
<ul>
<li><strong>He is genuine:</strong> You get to know the real him: he’s not wearing any mask</li>
<li><strong>He is more honest</strong>: It’s when you can accept your shortcomings, including your darker side, that you also gain the freedom of speaking your mind</li>
<li><strong>He is uplifting</strong>: He doesn’t need to “prove” his masculinity by abusing others</li>
</ul>
<h3>Example: Lewis Howes</h3>
<p>Lewis Howes, author of The Mask of Masculinity, is a great example of a high-quality man with a secure attachment style and who also manages to fully embrace vulnerability.</p>
<p>The guy is warm, welcoming and he always gives off the vibe of a man who is just being himself, comfortable being himself, with little or no social masks.<br />
See an example:</p>
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<p>He fully opens up, doesn’t try to sound cooler, doesn’t even try to stand straight to look better</p>
<h2><span id="7_He_Knows_Power_Dynamics"><span style="color: #ff6600;">He Knows Power Dynamics</span></span></h2>
<p>Power dynamics are advanced social skills.</p>
<p>And you don’t get to <em>high</em> quality without being advanced in some crucial areas of life.<br />
And since humans are social animals, social skills is one of those areas where you need to reach an advanced level, no matter what your chosen life path is.</p>
<p>High-quality men know what’s fair and not fair, what’s friendly and what’s rude, and what they can take and what they will <em>not</em> take.</p>
<p>And they set and enforce their boundaries accordingly.</p>
<p>The high-quality man is not a too nice guy afraid of standing up for himself.<br />
And when someone crosses his boundaries, he will let them know he’s not cool with it and that he has to insist on the limits he thinks are fair.</p>
<p>He will also do it with higher-ups, because he doesn’t take gratuitous meanness and disrespect, not even from a boss.<br />
High-quality men know that disrespect is a slippery slope, and if you allow it to happen once, people lose respect for you and they will keep doing it.<br />
They know it’s a risk, but their self-respect and their moral code is worth more than a job (plus high-quality men can usually get good jobs anyway).</p>
<p>At the upper echelons, high-quality men will also defend the boundaries of the people they care for and the people they take responsibility for.</p>
<p>And of course, needless to say, they demand fair behavior at home as well and they take no disrespect.<br />
If their spouse cheats, she’s out.<br />
And if she threatens to break up, they know how to handle it.</p>
<h2><span id="8_He_Is_Honest_To_His_Own_Value_System" style="color: #ff6600;">He Is Honest To His Own Value System</span></h2>
<p>High-quality men don’t indiscriminately accept value systems from others.</p>
<p>There is no shortage of people telling men how they should behave these days:</p>
<ul>
<li>Religions</li>
<li>Women</li>
<li>Mom and dad</li>
<li>MGTOW</li>
<li>Red Pill</li>
<li>This or that author…</li>
</ul>
<p>High-value men listen attentively to them all.<br />
But, ultimately, they build their own value system and have their own moral compass. That’s what they stick to.</p>
<p>There are many different value systems that can make a man high value. However, there are a few constraints.<br />
Alpha male is different. You can be a piece of shit and be an alpha male. But you can’t be a piece of shit and be a high-value man.</p>
<p>For example, high-quality men:</p>
<ul>
<li>Don’t get into a relationship if they want to sleep around</li>
<li>Don’t promise endless love if they don’t plan to stick around</li>
<li>If they promise something, they will do their best to make it happen</li>
</ul>
<p>And, if they get into a relationship and promise monogamy, they’ll try to stick with it (and demand the same back).</p>
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<h2><span id="9_He_Has_A_Growth_Mindset"><span style="color: #ff6600;">He Has A Growth Mindset</span></span></h2>
<p>Carol Dweck in her seminal psychological research outlines two different approaches people have to skills and talent:</p>
<ul>
<li>Fixed mindset</li>
<li>Growth mindset</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>Fixed Mindset</strong> people believe their qualities are set at birth and carved in stone.<br />
You are who you are, and there isn’t much you can do about it.</p>
<p>People with a fixed mindset shy away from challenges because losing means “they’re bad” and that would hurt their ego.<br />
These people are highly outcome dependent and when they fail, they make a lot of excuses because they feel the need to “cover up” their lack.</p>
<p>It’s difficult having open discussions and honest feedback with fixed mindset men because they are always guarded and take things very personally.</p>
<p><strong>Growth Mindset</strong> people believe they can learn and grow.<br />
They <em>seek</em> learning and growth opportunities because failing does not define them. On the contrary,  failing is the only way they can improve.</p>
<p>Men with a growth mindset move forward in their lives, are open to feedback and criticism, and are generally happier and more pleasant people to be around.</p>
<h2><span id="10_He_Takes_Responsibility"><span style="color: #ff6600;">He Takes Responsibility</span></span></h2>
<p>The locus of control is the degree to which people believe that they have -or don’t have- control over their life.</p>
<p>These are the two types of locus of control:</p>
<ul>
<li>Internal locus of control</li>
<li>External locus of control</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>Internal locus of control</strong> means you believe you are in control of your life.<br />
<strong>External locus of control</strong> means you believe life events determine the course of your life and you don’t have control over them.</p>
<p>The locus of control determines whether you feel like you’re at the helm of your life or like a castaway in a rudderless lifeboat.<br />
And<strong> high-quality men feel like they are at the helm of their lives</strong>.</p>
<p>Taking responsibility starts with your own life first and foremost: you take responsibility for your current station in life, and for where you want to go.</p>
<p>Great leadership is an extension of this principle. Great leadership rests on responsibility and a sense of ownership. It’s the responsibility of taking care not just for oneself, but for those around, and the feeling that you can help your group with your leadership.</p>
<p>This is also the best, and healthier way to be a leader in your relationship, which in turn is the healthiest of also maintaining attraction and, as a side consequence, control.</p>
<h3>Example: Tom Bilyeu</h3>
<p>Tom Bilyeu didn’t build a billion-dollar company by accident.<br />
He built one because he has a mindset whereby he takes ownership of everything that happens in his life.</p>
<p>Tom Bilyeu is an example of an extreme locus of control:</p>
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<blockquote><p><strong>Tom</strong>: Everything is your fault</p></blockquote>
<p>Also read Extreme Ownership or Ultimate Power (locus of control is one of the tenets for mental power).</p>
<p>An internal locus of control also shields you from superstitious BS. I remember a girlfriend of mine asking if “I really didn’t believe at all in the horoscope”.<br />
She loved me much more when I told her that men like myself are incompatible with the horoscope. The horoscope tells you what’s going to happen to you. It tells you what your path is going to look like. So then what, you can just sit back and let it unfold? That’s inconceivable.<br />
We don’t let anyone tell us what’s going to happen to us, because we, and we alone, are at the helm of our lives.</p>
<h2 id="1-become-a-high-value-man-with-purpose"><span style="color: #ff6600;">Become A High Value Man With Purpose</span></h2>
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<p>The first step in becoming a high value man is knowing what you want from life. It doesn’t matter whether you&#8217;re a young guy starting his first job or the CEO of a multimillion-dollar company; every man should have a goal that he wants to achieve by this time next year. Having a purpose is about having personal standards and a desire to improve upon what you already have in your skillset constantly. A high-value man with a purpose understands his successes, works to improve on his flaws, and at all times demonstrates good personal standards. Become this man and you’ll have a far greater understanding of the journey ahead of you.</p>
<h2><span style="color: #ff6600;">Demonstrate Resilience</span></h2>
<p>A man needs to be strong for his family, his colleagues, and for himself. I’m not talking about physical strength. Sure, benching 225 is pretty damn impressive, but it’s not necessarily going to help you when it comes to your success as a man. I’m talking about emotional and social strength. An individual’s ability to keep his chin up in the face of adversity and work through the hard times rather than cower beneath them. Knowing how to better yourself in this way is a great starting point for most men. It’s not about becoming superman overnight; it’s all about working towards a resilient frame of mind. Maybe you want to support your wife through hard times at work. Maybe you want to become the rock at your church so that people turn to you when the chips are down. Whatever your situation may be, the fact remains: a man should be able to show strength when the occasion calls for it. Hold your head high, rise to help those around you and work through any problems with dignity and strength.</p>
<h2><span style="color: #ff6600;">Communicate Well As A High Value Man</span></h2>
<p>A real-life example that a lot of men struggle with is how to communicate through text. For instance, an email that you think sounds like friendly banter might sound aggressive and sarcastic to the recipient. A high-value man can communicate appropriately, which means <strong>reading the room</strong> and understanding what is and isn&#8217;t appropriate within his current environment. A good set of rules to stick by:</p>
<ul>
<li>Avoid banter at the office – keep it strictly business.</li>
<li>Always politely clarify your meaning if misunderstandings occur.</li>
<li>Speak clearly and use correct English whenever communicating with someone you don’t know all that well.</li>
</ul>
<h2><span style="color: #ff6600;">Foster Healthy Relationships</span></h2>
<p>There’s nothing more dangerous to a man’s state of mind than a toxic relationship. As human beings, we tend to be very impressionable when it comes to other people’s emotions. In fact, psychologists Hess and Fischer’s study <em>Emotional Mimicry: Why And When We Mimic Emotions </em>suggests that:</p>
<h4 id="the-perception-of-a-specific-emotion-display-leads-to-the-imitation-of-that-display">‘The perception of a specific emotion display leads to the imitation of that display.&#8217;</h4>
<p>This can be a problem for any man striving to be the best version of himself. You may be the cheeriest guy on your block, but if you surround yourself with negative people, chances are you’ll begin to take on some of that negative emotion yourself. The best way to avoid this? Simple. Ensure that all of your relationships are healthy and emotionally beneficial. Understanding how to better yourself through careful consideration of your relationships is the key to becoming a high-value man. Actionable steps to help achieve this understanding could be:</p>
<ul>
<li>Ensure that you keep conversations as positive as possible.</li>
<li>Engage in relationships that make you feel happy.</li>
<li>Don’t be afraid to help boost the emotions of others with your positive outlook.</li>
</ul>
<h2><span style="color: #ff6600;">Gain Valuable Resources</span></h2>
<p>Earning a ton of money is one solution many men approach when considering how to better yourself in 2022. However, money isn’t everything and on its own very rarely brings complete happiness. The Minimalists: Joshua Fields Millburn and Ryan Nicodemus consider money to be part of happiness but not its defining feature:</p>
<blockquote class="wp-block-quote"><p>High income or no, we must avoid passivity in favor of active, engaged, deliberate tasks. We must acknowledge our mistakes, make the right direction-changing decisions, and then take incremental actions each day. – TheMinimalists.com</p></blockquote>
<p>Gents, they’ve got a great point. When we consider how to gain valuable resources, we must consider our knowledge a priority for improving ourselves. A man that consistently learns new things is a man that will consistently succeed in new ways. Need to ace an up-and-coming interview? Do the research and learn about the company. Need a new tire fitted on your car? Research how to fit a new tire yourself and add to your ever-growing skillset. As we say in the Marines – <strong>Improvise, Adapt, and Overcome.</strong></p>
<h2><span style="color: #ff6600;">Be Consistent</span><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="wp-image-7457 alignright" src="https://goodshepherdmedia.net/wp-content/uploads/2022/12/consistency.webp" alt="" width="420" height="287" srcset="https://goodshepherdmedia.net/wp-content/uploads/2022/12/consistency.webp 1024w, https://goodshepherdmedia.net/wp-content/uploads/2022/12/consistency-300x205.webp 300w, https://goodshepherdmedia.net/wp-content/uploads/2022/12/consistency-768x525.webp 768w" sizes="(max-width: 420px) 100vw, 420px" /></h2>
<p>Consistency is key. What’s another word for consistency? Stability.To truly present yourself as a high-value man – people need to know that they can rely on you. Let me ask you this: would you feel safe driving a car where the breaks only worked 50% of the time? Of course not! That’s a recipe for disaster. Trust and dependency work in a very similar way. If you aim to gain the trust and dependency of those around you, they need to know you’re going to be there when they need you the most. If you’re flaky and unreliable, the fact is you’re going to find it hard to win the trust of those around you. In short – make sure you fulfill the promises you make, stick to your decisions, and demonstrate reliability when it comes to making plans and following through with them.</p>
<h2><span style="color: #ff6600;">Command Presence As A High Value Man</span><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class=" wp-image-7454 alignright" src="https://goodshepherdmedia.net/wp-content/uploads/2022/12/stylish-man-suit-glasses.webp" alt="" width="556" height="380" srcset="https://goodshepherdmedia.net/wp-content/uploads/2022/12/stylish-man-suit-glasses.webp 1024w, https://goodshepherdmedia.net/wp-content/uploads/2022/12/stylish-man-suit-glasses-300x205.webp 300w, https://goodshepherdmedia.net/wp-content/uploads/2022/12/stylish-man-suit-glasses-768x525.webp 768w" sizes="(max-width: 556px) 100vw, 556px" /></h2>
<p>Do you guys remember those Cow Boy Westerns where the main character walks into a saloon, and everyone puts down their drinks, stops talking, and looks in his direction? That’s called commanding presence, gents. Am I saying that everyone should cower in fear upon your entry to your favorite bar? Of course not. Am I saying that everyone around you should know you mean business? Absolutely. Commanding respect can come in many forms – your personal style, the way you talk, and how you hold yourself in day-to-day life. <strong>It’s all about confidence.</strong> Learn how to command respect by dressing with confidence, speaking with confidence and moving with confidence.  At the end of the day, it takes a very open-minded man to consider his own downfalls and recognize where he needs to make improvements. However, the fact that you’ve read this article all the way to the end shows that you’ve got the potential to do just that and become a high-value man. It’s an exclusive club, guys – but believe me when I say the best men are part of it.</p>
<h2><span style="color: #ff6600;">Have a moral code</span></h2>
<p>Don&#8217;t be a cocksucker! Don&#8217;t be one of those guys that says to himself&#8230; I can get away with it so its ok. or Fuck this guy I hate him I am gonna fuck his world up cause I can.  This is not a man of high value but rather pond scum.  Men never obstruct nature, it is un-natural.  Men who partake in this will eventually meet a Sigma male&#8230; That will be the end of their shenanigans!  Strive on excellence. Think of the perfect man, and set out to be him! Do as you, must do! YOU WILL NEVER ACHIEVE YOUR GOAL WITHOUT OVERCOMING YOU! Build the man you want. We all live in our head sometime.  Think of who you really want to be. A liar ? A cheat? A thief? A conman? A person who harms innocent men of God? These are goals for the lowly.  The moral code you chose must be livable, and you must live it! No oh wow its getting hard time to quit, thats exactly what most do&#8230;. NOPE time to TURN IT UP!  A quitter never wins and a true winner never quits.  No one starts of a winner, we all will lose at times, dust it off and learn, build from it, grow from it, profit from it!</p>
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<li>Never Steal</li>
<li>Never Cheat</li>
<li>Be Mindful</li>
<li>Be Honest in all your doings, it feels good!</li>
<li>Help others that need it</li>
<li>Self Respect</li>
<li>Respect of others that offer it to you</li>
<li>Removal or ignoring of ignorant disrespectful people from your life whenever possible</li>
<li>fight for your beliefs and moral code, do not run from any challenge</li>
<li>There is a God, that is not up for debate on this site, find him, he your father. o doubt and you will</li>
<li>correct wrongs</li>
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<h2><span style="color: #ff6600;">Develop charisma</span></h2>
<p>Charisma is the ability to be confident and attractive no matter what the situation. It’s the ability to take on any difficult situation and make it seem easy. In order to possess charisma, you need to be able to handle yourself in different social situations, otherwise known as your areas of comfort and discomfort. In order to develop your areas of comfort and discomfort, you need to start thinking about social situations in advance. You need to be able to approach any situation with ease and be comfortable when it comes up. This takes a lot of practice, but if you’re patient with yourself, it eventually becomes second nature.</p>
<h2><span style="color: #ff6600;">Avoid negative traits</span></h2>
<p>This one is simple: don’t do any things that make you look bad in public. This means stop drinking if it tends to make you act like a fool and stop complaining about anything you don’t like. Your goal is to become the most positive person in the room and your actions need to reflect that.</p>
<h2><span style="color: #ff6600;">Keep your looks up to date</span></h2>
<p>This one is a little superficial, but with the right clothes and hairstyle, you can look better than most other people. Of course, this isn’t long-term, so don’t expect it to work over the years. You need to constantly redefine your style and acquire new items when your current ones no longer appeal to you.</p>
<h2><span style="color: #ff6600;">Be clean and well-groomed</span></h2>
<p>You might think this one is obvious, but you’d be surprised how many men go out in public with unshaved faces and unwashed clothing. Make sure you’re always the cleanest person in the room when you’re out and about. If you can be a high-value man, you’re much more likely to attract the right type of woman for you.</p>
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<h2><span style="color: #ff6600;">Be a gentleman &#8211; Not Overated</span></h2>
<p>Being a gentleman means that you are respectful to women and never act in a way that is offensive or demeaning. This is an easy point to understand, but it doesn’t mean everyone will fully comprehend it because there are still people out there who think it is okay to treat women in the disrespectful way they did in the 1800s.<strong>If you want to become more attractive, you should certainly be a gentleman. </strong></p>
<h2><span style="color: #ff6600;">Display high status symbols</span></h2>
<p>In order to be a high value man, you need to show off some status symbols. This could be a nice car or some luxury items that people want.</p>
<p>You don’t have to go overboard with this, but there are certain things that are expected of you if you want to take on a high value role in people’s lives.</p>
<h2><span style="color: #ff6600;">Work hard on your goals and targets</span></h2>
<p>If you want to be high value, then you need to work hard in order to meet your goals.</p>
<p data-slot-rendered-content="true">Pay attention to your daily goals, but when you don’t meet them try to figure out why. There are usually a few things that can be worked on here and there.</p>
<h2><span style="color: #ff6600;">Act like a leader</span></h2>
<p>Leaders always have high status in their groups. Leaders aren’t very popular, but they always have high status because they work hard to get the job done. They aren’t afraid to make difficult decisions and they take responsibility for their actions. You should think of yourself as a leader who is willing to take risks to achieve your goals. You might not be the most popular, but you’ll always have high status.</p>
<h2><span style="color: #ff6600;">Be a life-lover</span></h2>
<p>Life-lovers have mastered the art of living in the moment and enjoying everything that comes their way. They don’t complain about anything and they take every opportunity that comes their way. You shouldn’t complain about anything either because that makes you low value and low status.</p>
<h2><span style="color: #ff6600;">Know yourself inside and out</span></h2>
<p>Know yourself as well as you can before you try to become a high value man. This will make it easier for you to act like a leader, take risks and control your life. The more in control, the better man you will be.</p>
<h2><span style="color: #ff6600;">Dress for success</span></h2>
<p>Dressing well is crucial to being a high value man. Dressing well shows that you are well put together and prepared for life’s many challenges. It’s important that you can expect people to take you seriously when you go out of your way to make sure that you look good.</p>
<h2><span style="color: #ff6600;">Don’t complain about anything</span></h2>
<p>Don’t complain about anything in public because it makes you look weak and low value. It also shows that you’re not confident in your abilities, which is a huge turnoff for a lot of people. The worst part about complaining is that it makes you look weak and irrational; two things that can’t be helped if you want to become high value.</p>
<h2><span style="color: #ff6600;">Learn to analyze</span></h2>
<p>People who are analytical can often see what is going on in the world in a very different way than the average person. If you analyze things and have the ability to take all of your observations and put it into action, then you will become a very successful man. This is true whether it is business or personal because if you understand how other people think and make decisions, then you will have an advantage over those that do not keep themselves updated with current events.</p>
<h2><span style="color: #ff6600;">Be a man of the world</span></h2>
<p data-slot-rendered-content="true">Being a man of the world means that you are willing to keep yourself informed about what is going on in the world. Being educated and connected to current events helps in several different ways. When you understand exactly what is going on, you can be more attractive as a person.  Most importantly, you will have an advantage over men that have not kept up with current events because they will be at a huge disadvantage.</p>
<h2><span style="color: #ff6600;">Create a strong network of friendships and relationships</span></h2>
<p>Being popular makes you more attractive because people will want to associate with someone that other people like. If you are popular and have a great social life, a lot of people will want to be your friend simply because you are fun to be around. Those that do not have a well-established social circle will have more difficulty establishing lasting relationships with women; however, you can become successful by creating strong social groups to help you get dates.</p>
<h2><span style="color: #ff6600;">Improve your finances</span></h2>
<p>High value men are financially independent. They are in a position to live the lifestyle that they want, and they know how to spend money effectively.</p>
<h2><span style="color: #ff6600;">Know how to make good first impressions</span></h2>
<p>First impressions are crucial to getting high status. If people see you working hard, looking good and even being nice to them, then they’ll think that you have high social value. However, if they see you working hard, but acting like a jerk or dressing like a slob, then they’ll think that you have low status.</p>
<h2><span style="color: #ff6600;">Give value to people</span></h2>
<p>You can actually give value to people without giving them everything they want. For example, you can give value if you buy a cup of coffee for a coworker, help a friend move or even just look them in the eye and smile. Giving value is smart because it makes people feel good about themselves and they are more likely to want to give you the same treatment in return.</p>
<h2><span style="color: #ff6600;">Be smart, clever and practical</span></h2>
<p>If you want to become a high value man, then it’s important that you are smart, clever and practical in your everyday life. You don’t need to be the smartest person in the room, but you should be clever enough so that if you see someone having problems, you can come up with a practical solution for them.</p>
<h2><span style="color: #ff6600;">Don’t take life too seriously</span></h2>
<p data-slot-rendered-content="true">Being able to take a joke and not take life too seriously is one of the most attractive qualities that a man can possess.</p>
<h2><span style="color: #ff6600;">Recognizing your true worth</span></h2>
<p>A high value man knows what he has to offer to the world. He doesn’t see himself as superior to others, but rather as a guide and leader.  He’s responsible for his own actions and knows that he deserves the best in return. A high value man doesn’t feel like being admired is a burden; on the contrary, he’s more than happy to have people look up to him, because that means they are following his example. The ultimate goal is to be valuable to yourself and those around you.</p>
<h2><span style="color: #ff6600;">Be yourself</span></h2>
<p>Sometimes when we’re putting our best foot forward, we can end up coming across as fake people by trying too hard. If you want to be a high value man, you should be yourself and focus on being authentic. This means that even if there are things about yourself that you aren’t too proud of, like your inability to dance, then it’s okay.  Just be honest about what you’re good at and what you aren’t.</p>
<h2><span style="color: #ff6600;">Get rid of old habits</span></h2>
<p>Old habits can hold you back in more ways than one, and it’s important that you let go of them. Whether this means getting rid of old eating habits or bad habits like smoking, the sooner you can kick these things to the curb, the better off you’ll be. You should also make sure that your new habits are healthy ones, like exercising regularly or sticking to a clean diet.</p>
<h2><span style="color: #ff6600;">Being a high-value man means knowing that you’re a man</span></h2>
<p>Knowing that you are a man, and not just any man. Being sure that you are unique, important, and irreplaceable. People love to feel wanted, so why not make them feel exactly that? High-value men take command of their lives, lead the way and inspire others toward a better future. This all relates back to the incredible advice I learned from Kate Spring. She is a relationship expert who has transformed dating and relationships for thousands of men. One of the most valuable things she teaches is this:</p>
<ul>
<li>Women don’t choose the guy who will treat them the best. They choose guys they are deeply attracted to at a biological level.</li>
<li>Women don’t like assholes because they’re assholes. They like assholes because those guys are confident and they give off the right signals to them. The sort of signals a woman can’t resist.</li>
<li>What if I told you that you could quickly learn the right signals to give to women – and you absolutely don’t need to become an asshole in the process?</li>
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<h2><span style="color: #ff6600;">Love yourself first and everything else falls into place</span></h2>
<p>It may sound conceited or narcissistic to focus on loving yourself first. But it’s not. The point isn’t to believe you’re better than others or to accept things about yourself that you really do need to change. It’s about developing a healthy and nurturing relationship with… you! Loving yourself is about committing to who you are, understanding the many different nuances to your identity, and showing yourself a level of care and intimacy that we usually reserve for other people. Unfortunately, we’re not taught how to love ourselves from an early age. And we end up caring about what others think of us rather than focusing on what we need at a more fundamental level.</p>
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<p>Finally, keep this in mind:</p>
<ul>
<li>Almost everything related to humans is about balance and trade-offs.</li>
<li>You could take almost any single positive and, when you take them to the extreme, they would become a drawback.</li>
<li>Taking care of oneself to the extreme crosses into narcissism, too much vulnerability can become an excuse for ineffective crybabies, and sticking to one’s values no matter what can lead to big mistakes.</li>
<li style="text-align: left;">Indeed, like Benazir says in The Tao of Dating, balance is just another sign of high-quality men.</li>
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<p>In 2006, Gordon Hartman observed his daughter, Morgan, wanting to play with other vacationing kids at a hotel swimming pool, but the kids were leery of Morgan and didn’t want to interact with her. Then and there, Gordon resolved to create opportunities and places where those with and without disabilities can come together for fun and a better understanding of one another. On April 10, 2010, Morgan’s Wonderland became the world’s first theme park designed with individuals with special needs in mind.</p>
<p>In 2017, the Ultra-Accessible<img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/2122.png" alt="™" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /> theme park opened it’s expansion, Morgan’s Inspiration Island, which was named on the 2018 “World’s Greatest Places” list by TIME Magazine.</p>
<p>Guided by its mission of inclusion, the park strives to bring together guests of <b>all ages and all abilities</b> through the power of inclusive play.</p>
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<h3>Morgan&#8217;s Mission</h3>
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<p>Every day we work to provide an extraordinary place where smiles and laughter lead to wonderful memories with family members, friends, and caregivers. We want Morgan’s Wonderland to be a place where the common element of play creates an atmosphere of inclusion for those with and without disabilities while encouraging everyone to gain a greater understanding of one another.</p>
<p>Morgan’s Wonderland is just like any other theme park except for a culture and environment that assures 100 percent enjoyment by every person entering the Welcome Center. Unfortunately, countless children and adults with special needs do not have access to facilities that enable them to enjoy outdoor recreation fully. Morgan’s Wonderland is changing that every day.</p>
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<p>Call her a catalyst, a spark, an inspiration. Morgan Hartman doesn’t realize it, but her ability to smile through physical and cognitive special needs spurred her parents – Gordon and Maggie Hartman – to do things never before accomplished for individuals with special needs and their families. Morgan inspired the creation of a one-of-a-kind theme park and other initiatives benefiting the inclusive community.</p>
<p>The tipping point occurred in 2006 when Gordon observed Morgan wanting to play with other vacationing kids at a hotel swimming pool, but the kids were leery of Morgan and didn’t want to interact with her. Then and there, Gordon and Maggie resolved to create opportunities and places where those with and without disabilities can come together for fun and better understand one another. That led to the construction of Morgan’s Wonderland in an abandoned quarry in Northeast San Antonio. It’s apropos that the butterfly is the symbol of this unique theme park; soaring to one success after another is now commonplace.</p>
<p>When it celebrated its grand opening on April 10, 2010, Morgan’s Wonderland became the world’s first theme park designed with individuals with special needs in mind and built for everyone’s enjoyment. The completely wheelchair-accessible park features more than 25 elements, including rides, playgrounds, and other colorful attractions. From the very beginning, anyone with a special need has been admitted free of charge, no questions asked.</p>
<p>It is Morgan’s sincere hope that everyone with a special need – young and older, healthy or ailing, introspective, or outgoing – will be touched extraordinarily by Morgan’s Wonderland: a shrine of inclusion, an oasis of friendship, an unforgettable wonderland…Morgan’s Wonderland!</p>
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<div class="elementor-spacer-inner">Native San Antonian Gordon V. Hartman sold his highly-successful homebuilding business in 2005 to pursue his and wife Maggie’s dream of helping children and adults with special needs. He proceeded to build nonprofit Morgan’s Wonderland, still the world’s first and only Ultra-Accessible<img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/2122.png" alt="™" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" />, fully-inclusive theme park.</div>
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<p>The phenomenal success of Morgan’s Wonderland – almost 3 million guests from all 50 states and over 120 other countries through park visitation and special events – encouraged Gordon to add award-winning Morgan’s Inspiration Island splash park, Morgan’s Sports complex, year-round Morgan’s Camp and Morgan’s MAC (Multi-Assistance Center). This latest venture involves more than 30 community-based organizations that provide both medical and non-medical services to children and adults with special needs. Morgan’s MAC sets a new standard for delivering coordinated care in an inclusive atmosphere through the guidance and follow-through of specially-educated team members known as Navigators.</p>
<p>All of Gordon’s innovations – and more to come – comprise Morgan’s, the umbrella organization that strategically coordinates planning, fundraising, marketing and communications for all its “family” members. In every endeavor, Gordon emphasizes the importance of inclusion, bringing together those with and without special needs and disabilities for interaction and a better understanding of one another. In addition to his many accomplishments through Morgan’s, Gordon has worked closely with governmental and community leaders on improvements that further add to San Antonio’s growing reputation as “Inclusion City, USA.”</p>
<p>The inspiration for all that Gordon has accomplished is his 30-year-old daughter Morgan, who’s dealt with physical and cognitive special needs since birth. In the beginning, Gordon’s guiding motto was: “Together, we CAN make a difference!” As a result of many successes and lots more to come, that motto now is: “Together, we ARE making a difference!”</p>
<p><a href="https://morganswonderland.org/wp-content/themes/generatepress_child/bio/GordonHartmanBiography.pdf" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Click here</a> to read the full bio.</p>
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<p>In the wake of Tuesday&#8217;s election results, some women frustrated by President-elect Donald Trump&#8217;s return to the White House are using a centuries-old metaphor about women poisoning their husbands to channel their disappointment, causing a stir online.</p>
<p>The &#8220;Make Aqua Tofana Great Again,&#8221; or MATGA, movement is a recent online trend in which some women humorously advocate for &#8220;reviving&#8221; Aqua Tofana—a 17th-century poison used by women to kill and escape their abusive husbands.</p>
<p>Aqua Tofana, named after its alleged creator Giulia Tofana, was a deadly, undetectable poison used across Italy, gaining notoriety for its stealth and potency.</p>
<p><strong><em><span style="color: #ff0000;">The MATGA trend has become synonymous with Tofana, seemingly emerging as a satirical expression of frustration over certain political issues, mainly targeting Trump and men who support conservative policies that affect women.</span></em></strong></p>
<p>In a video posted on Grabien, women embracing the trend appear with captions such as: &#8220;Sure, my body, your choice,&#8221; before pouring unknown liquids into drinks.</p>
<p>This is juxtaposed with medieval images of women pouring potions, while the captions tell the story of Tofana who was &#8220;responsible for the deaths of over 600 abusive husbands in 17th-century Italy.&#8221;</p>
<p>One woman in the video leans toward the camera and whispers: &#8220;Aqua Tofana, am I right? Aqua Tofana. If you know, you know.&#8221;</p>
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<div id="google_ads_iframe_/43459271,22541732127/newsweek/inarticle2_0__container__">Some have framed the trend as a modern-day reminder of the long-standing fight for women&#8217;s rights. Meanwhile, critics argue that referencing a deadly poison, even in jest, can send the wrong message.</div>
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<p>One user on X (formerly Twitter) shared the video, referring to the 4B movement which saw a surge after Trump&#8217;s win: &#8220;First, Karens on TikTok and Instagram kicked off the 4B movement, refusing to marry, have children, date, or have relationships with men.</p>
<p>&#8220;They started wearing blue bracelets and getting blue heart tattoos to recognize each other in public as [Kamala] Harris voters, and this soon evolved into the MATGA movement. W***?!! The first video got over 1.3 million LIKES!!&#8221;</p>
<p>In response to the post, Georgia Representative Marjorie Taylor Greene raised an alarm to the FBI, tagging the agency in her post and calling for an investigation into the &#8220;public death threats.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;@FBI these are public death threats and must [be] investigated!&#8221; Greene wrote. &#8220;These women are telling others how to poison and murder men because they are angry over the election. If you tracked down J6&#8217;ers [January 6 rioters], pro-lifers, parents angry at school boards, then you better go after these psychopaths!&#8221;</p>
<p>In an emailed statement to <em>Newsweek</em> on Monday, a spokesperson for the FBI said: &#8220;The FBI investigates federal crimes and threats to the national security. We will never open an investigation based solely on First Amendment protected activity.</p>
<blockquote><p><span style="color: #0000ff;"><strong><em>&#8220;As always, we encourage members of the public to report threats of physical violence to local law enforcement. Tips or complaints relating to federal crimes and threats to the national security can be submitted to the FBI at 1-800-CALL FBI, or online at <a class="multivariate" style="color: #0000ff;" href="https://nam12.safelinks.protection.outlook.com/?url=http%3A%2F%2Ftips.fbi.gov%2F&amp;data=05%7C02%7Ce.marsden%40newsweek.com%7C63dc4c00e07c4246cacc08dd026221dc%7Cc6bc3eb5d7334f82ba021aa6e30053d3%7C0%7C0%7C638669342739976770%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJFbXB0eU1hcGkiOnRydWUsIlYiOiIwLjAuMDAwMCIsIlAiOiJXaW4zMiIsIkFOIjoiTWFpbCIsIldUIjoyfQ%3D%3D%7C0%7C%7C%7C&amp;sdata=mZ53iwMbdy%2BT0w1w8a3P0B1jWAInhYQo0rTFZcfJy%2F8%3D&amp;reserved=0" target="_blank" rel="noopener nofollow">tips.fbi.gov</a>.&#8221;</em></strong></span></p></blockquote>
<p><em>Newsweek</em> reached out to Greene via email on Monday outside of working hours for comment.</p>
<p>It is not the first time activists have used dark humor or historical references to convey social commentary, discontent, or resistance. Some see movements such as this as a way to reclaim symbols of autonomy from an era when women had few options to assert themselves.</p>
<p>In an emailed statement to <em>Newsweek</em> on Friday, Alasia Nuti from the University of York in the U.K. who researches and teaches on gender and sexuality, said:</p>
<p>&#8220;I think that the MATGA movement is urging women to stand up against sexism and misogyny in a satirical and certainly provocative way.</p>
<p>&#8220;Instead of condemning MATGA, we should be outraged by what members of MATGA (and their heroine Giulia Tofana before them in 17th-century Italy) are fighting against: continuous attacks on women&#8217;s freedom.&#8221;</p>
<p>Though initially tongue-in-cheek, the movement has continued to gain traction on social media, where women are using the Aqua Tofana reference as a rallying cry.</p>
<p>One woman posted a video on TikTok about MATGA in which she said: &#8220;Good morning, just a couple of quick thoughts on MATGA. You ladies are incorrigible and I appreciate you hanging on to your sense of humor. We&#8217;re gonna need it right now, because if you don&#8217;t laugh you cry.&#8221;</p>
<p>The woman then hinted at MATGA merchandise saying: &#8220;I&#8217;m going to need a black shirt with an Italian flag that says MATGA because we know what that means.</p>
<p>&#8220;But if anybody asks me I&#8217;m gonna say &#8216;oh, I&#8217;m Italian-American, that&#8217;s an old Italian tradition developed in Sicily by women that aspire to wear black for the rest of their lives. Just keep laughing, have a great weekend.&#8221;</p>
<p>The video was then shared on X by an account that opposed the sentiments in the video and tagged the FBI in their post.</p>
<p>&#8220;MATGA = Make aqua tofana Great Again. In case you don&#8217;t know: Aqua Tofana was a powerful poison created in Sicily around 1630 that was said to be used throughout Italy,&#8221; the user posted on X next to the video.</p>
<p>&#8220;It is associated with Giulia Tofana, a woman from Palermo who was said to lead a group of poisoners in Rome,&#8221; they added, before tagging the FBI in their post. &#8220;Now that they didn&#8217;t get their way, [they] mean to kill us. How Democratic of them @FBI.&#8221;</p>
<p>Other users also tagged the FBI in their comments below the post.</p>
<p>Whilst some are offended by the movement, many see the reference to the poison not as a literal call to violence but as a symbolic protest against perceived misogyny, and, for many, the disenfranchisement of women&#8217;s voices in modern politics or society.</p>
<p>In numerous posts and MATGA hashtags, the movement&#8217;s supporters emphasize that their aim is not to glorify actual violence but to initiate discussion around women&#8217;s autonomy, safety, and rights in a climate that some feel continues to marginalize them.</p>
<p>Although MATGA does not appear to be a real movement advocating harm, searches for MATGA and Giulia Tofana have since gone up online.</p>
<p><strong><em>Update 11/11/2024 11:57 a.m. ET: This article has been updated with comment from the FBI. </em></strong></p>
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<div dir="ltr">A bad attitude can literally block love, blessings &amp; destiny from finding you. Don&#8217;t be the reason you don&#8217;t succeed in life!</div>
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<p>Maintaining a positive attitude throughout your personal and professional life can help you find healthy coping mechanisms for stressors and challenges. With a positive attitude, you may be able overcome obstacles more easily, find more opportunities to express gratitude in your life and even forge actionable paths toward achieving your dreams. While fostering a positive outlook on a day-to-day basis can sometimes feel challenging, especially when you experience tension in your life, it&#8217;s a worthwhile endeavor to undertake. In this article, we discuss what attitude is, why it&#8217;s important and outline 11 helpful tips for maintaining a positive attitude.</p>
<h3 class="rich-text-component css-mep417 e1tiznh50">What is attitude?</h3>
<p><span class="rich-text-component css-1yjzpiw e1wnkr790">Attitude is the way a person thinks or feels about a specific person, place, action or experience. Similar to individual perspective, attitude encompasses a person&#8217;s particular emotions and the way in which they act toward someone or something. Attitude is a specific disposition that combines factors like beliefs, opinions, moods and emotions. Sometimes, attitude is referred to as an outlook or mental state that affects the way people perceive the world around them and the way they experience life, work, relationships and more.</span></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #3366ff;"><em>Attitude is a combination of emotions, beliefs, opinions, and moods that can affect how people perceive the world and experience life. It can also impact how people communicate, collaborate, and perform their daily tasks. Ultimately, attitude can shape success and happiness.</em></span></strong></p>
<p>Some say that a positive attitude can help people feel more confident and overcome obstacles. It can also help people enjoy their work more and advance their careers. For example, a positive attitude can affect whether someone gets a promotion or raise, and the kind of reference they receive from an employer</p>
<p>Some traits that people with a positive mental attitude may embody include: Resilience, Courage, Optimism, Gratitude, and Acceptance.</p>
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<h2 class="rich-text-component css-mep417 e1tiznh50">Why is attitude important?</h2>
<blockquote class="rich-text-component css-181cc4x eu4oa1w0"><p><span class="css-1xxj18q e1wnkr790"><span class="rich-text-component css-1yjzpiw e1wnkr790">Attitude is important because it can influence your ability to move through the world. For instance, maintaining a positive attitude can help you achieve measurable success in your personal and professional life.</span></span></p></blockquote>
<p><span class="rich-text-component css-1yjzpiw e1wnkr790">Your outlook can greatly impact your health, social life, earning potential, productivity, ability to overcome obstacles and more. With a positive attitude, excelling in these various domains of life can become a much simpler endeavor—creating enormous benefits that can significantly improve the quality of your life. Comparatively, if you maintain a negative or skeptical attitude, you may not be able to access the same benefits.</span><span class="rich-text-component css-1yjzpiw e1wnkr790">A positive attitude may enable you to reduce your stress level, cope with challenges in a healthy and productive way, achieve actionable goals and maintain overall mental and physical wellness. Therefore, it&#8217;s important to purposefully seek methods of maintaining a positive attitude throughout your interactions with others, time spent at work and in your personal or recreational time. While this can be a challenging task, especially in the face of life stressors, it can help foster noteworthy advantages in your daily life and lead to increased satisfaction in your career, relationships and more.</span></p>
<h2 class="rich-text-component css-mep417 e1tiznh50">Tips for maintaining a positive attitude</h2>
<p><span class="rich-text-component css-1yjzpiw e1wnkr790">Maintaining a positive attitude can sometimes feel challenging, especially when you experience stressors or come across obstacles. Despite this, being purposeful about cultivating positivity in your life can lead you to experience significant benefits, such as professional success and increased overall life satisfaction. There are a number of concrete strategies available which you can implement in your life to nurture a positive attitude and potential growth. Here are 11 different tips for maintaining a positive attitude:</span></p>
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<h3 class="rich-text-component css-wsn4op e1tiznh50">Start your day off right</h3>
<p><span class="rich-text-component css-1yjzpiw e1wnkr790">Beginning your day with purpose is an incredibly powerful way to cultivate positivity in your life. Instead of rushing out of the house without eating breakfast, try to wake up earlier in the morning and use the extra time to make it one of the best parts of your day. You may choose to start your day with any activity that brings you joy, relaxation and energy.</span><span class="rich-text-component css-1yjzpiw e1wnkr790">Participating in exercise, cooking yourself a healthy breakfast or listening to an audio book are all strong ways to start your morning. When your morning is more relaxed and productive, you&#8217;ll likely head into work with a calmer mindset and the initiative to take on the day.</span></p>
<h3 class="rich-text-component css-wsn4op e1tiznh50">Curate a positive workspace</h3>
<p><span class="rich-text-component css-1yjzpiw e1wnkr790">It can be challenging to stay positive at work if you don&#8217;t feel comfortable in your office, at your desk or wherever you spend the bulk of your day. Try to lift your spirits by curating a positive workspace with calming decor, photos of loved ones, flowers or even aromatherapy devices. These items can help foster a peaceful environment, even at work. When you&#8217;re surrounded by reminders of positivity in your life, it&#8217;s more likely that you&#8217;ll be able to maintain a positive attitude as you move throughout your day.</span></p>
<h3 class="rich-text-component css-wsn4op e1tiznh50">Generate a routine you can follow</h3>
<p><span class="rich-text-component css-1yjzpiw e1wnkr790">Having an unpredictable schedule can lead you to feel more stress and less comfort in your day-to-day life. To avoid such pitfalls, try to come up with a daily routine that you can follow as you commute, work and attempt to unwind afterwards. Creating regularity in your life can give you a feeling of balance and decrease the possibility of experiencing fluctuating emotions that may lead to a downturn in your attitude.</span></p>
<h3 class="rich-text-component css-wsn4op e1tiznh50">Reframe your interactions</h3>
<p><span class="rich-text-component css-1yjzpiw e1wnkr790">In your interactions with other people, it can be helpful to reframe your outlook—try to assume the best of others and spread optimism as you converse with them. If you become a champion of others in your life and provide them with generosity in your interactions, it can lead you to develop deeper, more positive connections. Whether it&#8217;s with your coworkers, manager, friends or your significant other, shifting your mindset while interacting with other individuals can help elevate your positive attitude.</span></p>
<h3 class="rich-text-component css-wsn4op e1tiznh50">Practice using positive language</h3>
<p><span class="rich-text-component css-1yjzpiw e1wnkr790">On a regular basis, try using positive language to describe yourself, your experiences, your aspirations and the other people in your life. Exuding this energy can help promote positivity in all realms of your professional and personal life. Not only will purposefully using positive language make it easier for you to transform your outlook internally, but it can also encourage others to view you positively, too.</span></p>
<h3 class="rich-text-component css-wsn4op e1tiznh50">Avoid gossiping</h3>
<p><span class="rich-text-component css-1yjzpiw e1wnkr790">Gossip exists as a standard social activity in many workplaces. Despite this, it&#8217;s not a healthy or positive behavior to engage in—rather, gossiping leads to higher stress situations where others may feel unstable or unsafe. To maintain a positive attitude, you should avoid getting involved in gossiping. Not only will this keep you from contributing to a negative work environment, but it will give you the ability to focus more keenly on your own work.</span></p>
<h3 class="rich-text-component css-wsn4op e1tiznh50">Show your appreciation for others</h3>
<p><span class="rich-text-component css-1yjzpiw e1wnkr790">On a regular basis, take the time out of your day to reflect on the things and people you are grateful for. From here, try to acknowledge your gratitude by telling others how you feel. Increasing the amount of appreciation you express toward others in your life can be a great way to bolster your positivity. When you visualize and describe the factors of your life that help you experience joy, you can more easily develop a healthy outlook and maintain it throughout your day.</span></p>
<h3 class="rich-text-component css-wsn4op e1tiznh50">Be kind to yourself</h3>
<p><span class="rich-text-component css-1yjzpiw e1wnkr790">As you move through your day, try to find opportunities to be kind to yourself. It&#8217;s incredibly important to take care of yourself, both physically and mentally—feeling good on a day-to-day basis can help enable your positive attitude. Try to practice self-care by engaging in activities that help you unwind at various intervals throughout the day. By allowing yourself the ability to find joy in your day, you can more easily maintain a positive attitude overall.</span></p>
<h3 class="rich-text-component css-wsn4op e1tiznh50">Take breaks when you need them</h3>
<p><span class="rich-text-component css-1yjzpiw e1wnkr790">To stay relaxed and maintain a positive outlook throughout your day, try to take breaks when you need them. If you start to feel sluggish, irritable or overly challenged, it&#8217;s a good idea to step away from your work and engage in some restful activity, such as taking a walk. Though you may be inclined to skip breaks if you&#8217;re busy or want to make it home earlier at the end of the day, by doing so you miss an opportunity to nurture a healthy and positive relationship with your work.</span></p>
<h3 class="rich-text-component css-wsn4op e1tiznh50">Have something to look forward to</h3>
<p><span class="rich-text-component css-1yjzpiw e1wnkr790">If you find it challenging to stay positive during the workday, it can be helpful to plan a joyous or relaxing activity for the end of the day. This activity will give you something to look forward to as you engage in your work and can even serve as a reward for being particularly productive or focused that day. Making such plans can help you cultivate a healthy balance between your personal and professional life, leading to more positivity in general.</span></p>
<h3 class="rich-text-component css-wsn4op e1tiznh50">Practice mindfulness</h3>
<p><span class="rich-text-component css-1yjzpiw e1wnkr790">Practicing mindfulness can help significantly improve your ability to maintain a positive attitude. When you focus your awareness on the present moment, you can more easily accept, acknowledge and move through any challenges you&#8217;re experiencing. This is a useful method of maintaining positivity during times of high stress or on days you don&#8217;t feel as engaged. <a href="https://www.indeed.com/career-advice/career-development/why-attitude-is-important" target="_blank" rel="noopener">source</a></span></p>
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<h1 class="entry-title">THE POWER OF ATTITUDE</h1>
<h2><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong><em>Where in your life could you use an attitude adjustment?</em></strong></span></h2>
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<p>When we talk about The R Factor, we talk about how you Respond to any Event to get a better Outcome.  For better or worse, your attitude affects your performance and your response.</p>
<p>Your attitude has a profound impact on the way you lead people. It affects the way you sell and the way you serve customers. Your attitude has a direct impact on how you communicate and collaborate with others, how you contribute to the culture of your work environment, and how you perform your daily tasks and responsibilities. Ultimately, your attitude shapes your success and your happiness. Other things being equal, the person with the best attitude will win. Other things not being equal, the person with the best attitude usually wins. Unfortunately, many people cling to beliefs and attitudes that restrict rather than empower their performance.</p>
<p>The reality is that you determine your attitude. Your attitude is one of the few things in life over which you have total control. Harvard psychologist Williams James: “The greatest discovery of my generation is that a human being can alter his life by altering his attitudes of mind.” If you want to perform at your best, and if you want to maximize your happiness and fulfillment, then you must take control of the life-shaping power of your attitude. Please understand: developing and sustaining a positive attitude is not merely a quick-fix motivational technique. It is a disciplined skill that must be practiced and learned.</p>
<h2>What is Attitude?</h2>
<p>Attitude is the way you look at life. It is the way you choose to see and respond to events, situations, people, and yourself. Your attitude is not something that happens to you. You choose your attitude. Your attitude is created by your thoughts, and you choose your thoughts. You are the architect of your frame of mind. You decide how you will perceive and process the events of life and work. You make the decision if your mindset is positive or negative. If you want to feel better you have to think better. In order to be positive in the way you feel, it is necessary to be disciplined in the way you think.</p>
<p>Performance begins within you. Your mind has enormous power. Indeed, your mind is your most important performance resource. How you see and respond to the events of life and work is shaped by your mindset and patterns of thinking. Therefore, an essential key to success is to train your mind and use it wisely.</p>
<h2>E + R = O</h2>
<p><strong>Event + Response = Outcome</strong></p>
<p>A distinguishing characteristic of consistently successful people is their ability to maintain a positive and proactive attitude. Successful people think differently than average people. Successful people produce better outcomes because their R Factor is guided by a positive and proactive mindset. Their mind is not cluttered or distracted by pessimism, negativity, or cynicism; as a result, they are able to focus all of their mental energy on exploring solutions, taking effective action, and learning how to get better.</p>
<h2>What is Negative Attitude?</h2>
<p>A negative attitude is the result of negative thinking. It is a lack of mental discipline. It focuses on the problem and stops looking for solutions or opportunities. A negative attitude can only survive on a steady diet of negative thinking and negative self-talk. A negative attitude is habit-forming, and it has an impact on you and the people around you. A negative attitude affects you physically. A person with a negative attitude will almost always lose to a person with a positive attitude. Sadly, many people with a negative attitude are stuck in a doom loop because they have a negative attitude about improving their attitude. This is not a good place to be!</p>
<h2>What is Positive Attitude?</h2>
<p>A positive attitude is the result of a disciplined and deliberate way of seeing, thinking, and responding to life. It is a mental discipline. It is intentional. It is mental toughness. A positive attitude is not naïve, and it does not sugarcoat problems. Rather, it sees and acknowledges problems and then focuses on finding solutions and opportunities. It looks for the opportunity within the problem. A positive attitude is habit-forming, and it has an impact on you and people around you. A positive attitude affects you physically. A person with a positive attitude will almost always outperform a person with a negative attitude.</p>
<h3>Disciplined Thinking</h3>
<p>In order to have a positive and proactive attitude, you must be disciplined and deliberate about the way you see and think about events, situations, people, and yourself. The way you think drives the way you feel; therefore, consciously managing the way you perceive and process events is essential to a positive attitude.</p>
<p>A key element of mental discipline is paying attention to and managing your self-talk. Self-talk is what you say to yourself about situations you’re facing. It is how you choose to interpret and explain the events you are experiencing.<br />
Managing your self-talk is critical because words carry thoughts, and thoughts create feelings.</p>
<p>Here’s how it works: Your attitude begins with what you choose to focus on and the words you use to express your focus. A person with an default-driven, negative mindset will focus on a situation and say something like, “That’s a stupid idea. It will never work.”</p>
<p>A person with a discipline-driven, positive mindset will look at the same situation and say something like, “That’s an idea. I’m not sure if it will work, but let’s explore it further and find out.” Note carefully the difference in language between these two mindsets.</p>
<p>The default way of thinking uses phrases like “never” and “always.” The disciplined way of thinking uses language like “possible” and “maybe” and “explore.” Because attitude is so immediately responsive to language, the negative words will trigger negative feelings, and the positive words will trigger positive feelings.</p>
<h3>Manage Your Focus</h3>
<p>The way you think drives the way you feel. When faced with a difficult or frustrating situation, you can choose to focus on the problem, engage in negative self-talk, and focus your emotional energy on worrying and complaining; or you can acknowledge what is challenging, discipline yourself to see the big picture, engage in productive self-talk, and focus your emotional energy on finding a solution or on enduring the challenge.</p>
<p>Make a note (this is important) that a positive attitude does not ignore problems. It does not gloss over hard issues or disregard what is challenging.<br />
In fact, a positive attitude actually sees the situation more accurately and thoroughly because it does not lock-in on the negative aspects of the situation.</p>
<p>A negative attitude tends to be narrow, limiting, and rigid.  Once a negative attitude finds what it is looking for (which it almost always does), it stops looking and stops thinking. A positive attitude, on the other hand, tends to give greater perspective and insight because it stays fully engaged in the search for a solution.</p>
<p>If you think managing internal thoughts to produce a positive, proactive attitude is merely a hyped-up motivational technique, consider the research that confirms the effectiveness and power of this mental discipline. The works of Martin Seligman (see his book Learned Optimism) and Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi (see his book Flow: the Psychology of Optimal Experience) are good beginning references. Here is a snapshot of what Csikszentmihalyi has discovered in his studies:</p>
<p>“How we feel about ourselves, the joy we get from living,<br />
ultimately depends directly on how the mind filters and interprets everyday experience.<br />
A person can make himself happy, or miserable, regardless of what is actually happening ‘outside,’ just by changing the contents of consciousness. The most successful people, the happiest people, are those who learn to take charge of what happens in the mind.”</p>
<h3>Simple disciplines for improving attitude…</h3>
<ol>
<li><strong>Be self-aware of your attitude.</strong> Don’t just let it happen. Pay attention to it.</li>
<li><strong>Refocus, reframe, and respond</strong> when your attitude becomes impulsive or negative.</li>
<li><strong>Be aware of the things that tend to trigger a disruptive attitude in you.</strong> Anticipate. Plan ahead.</li>
<li><strong>Manage your internal stories and scripts.</strong> Master the art of productive self-talk. Is your language helping or hurting? You talk to yourself more than to any other person in your life. Get good at it.</li>
<li><strong>When there is a problem, acknowledge it.</strong> Then immediately focus on finding solutions and opportunities for action. Immediately.</li>
<li><strong>Ruthlessly eliminate BCD</strong> from your life: Blaming, Complaining, Defensiveness.</li>
<li><strong>Turn off the TV.</strong> Invest in yourself. Don’t waste your time watching other people’s lives.</li>
<li><strong>Start every day with a time of reflection and preparation</strong>. Be disciplined and intentional about the way you start your day. Put yourself in a discipline-driven frame of mind.</li>
<li><strong>Be patient.</strong> Be tough. It takes time to build a winning attitude.</li>
<li><strong>Keep things in perspective</strong>. Never lose sight of the big picture.</li>
</ol>
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong><em>Where in your life could you use an attitude adjustment?</em></strong></span></p>
<p><a href="https://focus3.com/the-power-of-attitude/#:~:text=Your%20attitude%20has%20a%20direct,your%20success%20and%20your%20happiness." target="_blank" rel="noopener">source</a></p>
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<p>1. Someone makes 10x more than you do in a 9-5 job because they have more &#8220;leverage&#8221; with their work.</p>
<p>2. Distraction is the greatest killer of success. It stunts and destroys your brain.</p>
<p>3. You shouldn&#8217;t take advice from people who are not where you want to be in life.</p>
<p>4. No one is coming to save your problems. Your life&#8217;s 100% your responsibility.</p>
<p>5. You don&#8217;t need 100 self-help books, all you need is action and self discipline.</p>
<p>6. Unless you went to college to learn a specific skill (ie. doctor, engineer, lawyer), you can make more money in the next 90 days just learning sales.</p>
<p>7. No one cares about you. So stop being shy, go out and create your chances.</p>
<p>8. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don&#8217;t compete.</p>
<p>9. Smoking has 0 benefit in your life. This habit will only slow your thinking and lower your focus.</p>
<p>10. Comfort is the worst addiction and cheap ticket to depression.</p>
<p>11. Don&#8217;t tell people more than they need to know, respect your privacy.</p>
<p>12. Avoid alcohol at all cost. Nothing worse than losing your senses and acting a fool.</p>
<p>13. Keep your standards high and don&#8217;t settle for something because it&#8217;s available.</p>
<p>14. The family you create is more important than the family you come from.</p>
<p>15. Train yourself to take nothing personally to save yourself from 99.99% of mental problems.</p>
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					<description><![CDATA[Here’s What Happens When You Stop Drinking What happens when you stop drinking alcohol? Pretty much everything you’d expect—and also plenty that you might not. Like, better sleep, less anxiety, and a clearer head, for one. And, glowier skin, hotter sex, and maybe even more connected relationships as well. But that’s not all: Recent studies show that the list of social, [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p>What happens when you stop drinking alcohol? Pretty much everything you’d expect—and also plenty that you might not.</p>
<p>Like, better sleep, less anxiety, and a clearer head, for one. And, glowier skin, hotter sex, and maybe even more connected relationships as well. But that’s not all: Recent studies show that the list of social, psychological, and physical benefits of teetotaling is ever-growing. It includes everything from more balanced hormones to a stronger immune system to reduced risks of heart disease, liver disease, and cancer. Plus, the potential of increased self-awareness, self-confidence, and higher self-esteem, too. As one doctor I recently interviewed put it, when you quit alcohol, “your entire body and soul improves.”</p>
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<p>But swapping our evening glass of red wine for non-alcoholic spritzes and mocktails isn&#8217;t always super easy to do—even if you don’t officially struggle with an alcohol use disorder. That’s because alcohol is literally everywhere; its consumption is ingrained in our culture and societal norms. “Alcohol is the only socially-accepted mind-altering beverage in the world,” says Dr. Rafaat Girgis, a triple-board certified psychologist and the medical director at Moment of Clarity, a mental health treatment center in Orange County, California. “It’s served at parties, during meals, and on holidays; for most people, it’s just a part of daily life.” Which is why taking even just a short break for Dry January or Sober October—not to mention, quitting long-term—can often feel like it requires heroic levels of discipline.</p>
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<p>One way to make it all a little easier: having a firm understanding of when you can expect to experience all the benefits. Anticipating everything that can occur after one day, one week, one month, and beyond can help you stay connected with the positive changes as they unfold— and remind you to give yourself some grace when temptations emerge. “Getting your body back to normal functioning depends on many factors, including your gender, current health, and your willingness,” explains Dr. Girgis. “Accept it, learn, and gain insight as you go.” After all, the body and the soul don’t improve overnight.</p>
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<p>To that end, it’s also important to stay patient—and persistent. Good advice for any challenging situation, really, and especially when it comes to cutting back on or quitting alcohol. Tanya Mezher, a certified dietary nutritionist and the founding practitioner at functional medicine platform Malla agrees. “Recovery takes time, and setbacks may occur,” she warns. “Stay committed to your goals. The timeline varies from person to person, but noticeable improvements in physical and mental health can often be seen within a few weeks to months.”</p>
<p>With that in mind, here’s an overview of what you can expect in the short term and the long term when you stop drinking. Plus, a few more tips to help you succeed at every juncture in the journey. And remember: if you’re feeling hopeless or out-of-control because of heavy drinking, it’s important to seek professional medical support. You don’t have to go it alone and quitting cold turkey is not advisable. Call the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration hotline, which operates 24/7, 365 days a year, at 1-800-662-HELP (4357) for more information.</p>
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<h2>What happens you stop drinking after one day</h2>
<p>For many, experiencing the intense flu-like symptoms of a hangover—nausea, headache, chills, sweating, restlessness, anxiety, bowel upset, and <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2842521/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">inflammation</a>—can be a powerful impetus for deciding to quit or, at the very least, cut back. Therefore, depending on how much alcohol you typically consume, the first day off can be a little, ahem, rough. But the good news is, the first 12 to 24 hours of sobriety is when the healing also begins. Notably, you’ll experience increased hydration as your reduced blood alcohol levels reduce. “This could be the most critical part of stopping without a medical intervention,” Dr. Girgis says.</p>
<h2>After three days</h2>
<p>It’s not uncommon to experience alcohol withdrawal symptoms and cravings within the first few days of quitting; fitful sleep and low-level depression are also common. “This is the time where you are most vulnerable physically,” Dr. Girgis says, noting that this is often the point when many hopeful quitters succumb to the temptation to quell discomfort with a little “hair of the dog.” If you’re able to resist, the results will be worthwhile: you should start to experience better sleep, increased energy, and improved digestion by the 72-hour mark—and also noticeable skin clarity and increased levels of energy thanks to improved hydration. The liver, which is responsible for metabolizing alcohol, will also begin to reset and repair.</p>
<h2>After one to two weeks</h2>
<p>By now, you should be feeling a marked difference—and any improvements you’ve recently seen in your skin, energy, and sleep quality will only increase. Your immune system should be firing more effectively now, too, which can mean less chance of sickness, inflammation, and infection. Withdrawal symptoms should also have noticeably subsided at this point, freeing you to relish in the improvement in mental clarity and sharpness.</p>
<h2>After one month</h2>
<p>Like a downhill skier picking up speed, the momentum—and benefits—really start to build after a month. Liver enzyme levels and blood pressure have normalized, reducing the risk of cirrhosis and heart disease. Cardiovascular levels are also improved, which may also contribute to weight loss and visible changes in your physique.</p>
<h2>After three months</h2>
<p>You may suddenly notice you’re seeing the world through a rosier lens: At three months, emotions and mental health have stabilized leading to a more positive outlook and much cheerier moods. You may be feeling more creative and motivated, too, as any <a class="external-link" href="https://www.verywellmind.com/what-happens-when-you-stop-drinking-alcohol-timeline-5324861" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-offer-url="https://www.verywellmind.com/what-happens-when-you-stop-drinking-alcohol-timeline-5324861" data-event-click="{&quot;element&quot;:&quot;ExternalLink&quot;,&quot;outgoingURL&quot;:&quot;https://www.verywellmind.com/what-happens-when-you-stop-drinking-alcohol-timeline-5324861&quot;}">alcohol-induced brain damage or shrinking</a> should begin to repair. Sleep patterns should be completely regulated by now, which means you could be jumping out of bed faster than you ever have before.</p>
<h2>After six months to a year—and beyond</h2>
<p>This is when most people really start to feel like a whole new version of themselves in all ways. Everything from anxiety to depression to sexual function should be majorly improved by now—and will only continue to benefit as the body repairs. The <a href="https://www.cancer.gov/about-cancer/causes-prevention/risk/alcohol/alcohol-fact-sheet" target="_blank" rel="noopener">risk of developing certain cancers</a>, as well as liver and <a href="https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/wellness-and-prevention/alcohol-and-heart-health-separating-fact-from-fiction" target="_blank" rel="noopener">heart disease</a> are also more markedly reduced. And, many people also report more fulfillment in their relationships and work as their self-esteem and confidence increase. “My feelings is that it truly takes one year for your body to return to normal,” Dr. Girgis says. This is also when you may decide to never look back again; when you realize that quitting alcohol might just be, as he puts it, “the best choice you will ever make.”</p>
<h2>Staying committed long-term</h2>
<p>When it comes to staying on the wagon, both Dr. Grigis and Mezer say that it’s helpful to continue to set clear goals and seek support—whether that’s through a professional therapist, a medical advisor, family and friends, or organized groups. “Share your intentions with friends and family who can provide encouragement,” Mezer advises. And, don’t neglect the self-care basics. “Nutrition and hydration are your friends,” says Dr. Grigis. “Choose healthy foods and beverages, and remember to be physically active—even if it’s just walking around the neighborhood.” They both say these things can really help you stay focused and avoid potential triggers, both important factors in long-term success. “Know this,” Dr. Grigis says. “The decision to stop drinking is yours, and though it’s a daily commitment, it is possible—and wonderful.” <a href="https://www.vogue.com/article/what-happens-when-you-stop-drinking" target="_blank" rel="noopener">source</a></p>
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<p class="q-text qu-display--block qu-wordBreak--break-word qu-textAlign--start">“Life is so precious! Live with love, joy, happiness, and abundance.” I believe that the greatest gift you can give your family and your loved ones is a healthy you. I am sure that everyone has heard about alcohol abuse and addiction.</p>
<p class="q-text qu-display--block qu-wordBreak--break-word qu-textAlign--start">Alcoholism is one of the most common addiction forms. Alcoholism is a bad habit that affects all aspects of your life. Drinking problem can have a negative impact on our health, relationships, finances and many more.</p>
<p class="q-text qu-display--block qu-wordBreak--break-word qu-textAlign--start">Before you get to the point how quitting can change our lives, you should know about the consequence and effects of drinking alcohol:</p>
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<p class="q-text qu-display--block qu-wordBreak--break-word qu-textAlign--start">INTERPERSONAL PROBLEM</p>
<p class="q-text qu-display--block qu-wordBreak--break-word qu-textAlign--start">People with Alcoholism suffer the interpersonal problem. They begin to draw out from family, relatives, and friends. They become argumentative and strained at home, at work, and with friends. Some people won’t even realize how badly they are affecting their family.</p>
<p class="q-text qu-display--block qu-wordBreak--break-word qu-textAlign--start">&gt;HEALTH PROBLEM</p>
<p class="q-text qu-display--block qu-wordBreak--break-word qu-textAlign--start">Drinking is done for a short period of time but its effects are long term. It affects our complete body. Heavy drinking puts you at a risk of developing serious health problems.Such as heart disease, liver disease, certain forms of cancer and pancreatitis.</p>
<p class="q-text qu-display--block qu-wordBreak--break-word qu-textAlign--start">&gt;LIVER DISEASE</p>
<p class="q-text qu-display--block qu-wordBreak--break-word qu-textAlign--start">Long-term heavy drinking develops alcoholic hepatitis or inflammation of the liver. It causes fever, jaundice and abdominal pain and can cause death.</p>
<p class="q-text qu-display--block qu-wordBreak--break-word qu-textAlign--start">&gt;HEART DISEASE</p>
<p class="q-text qu-display--block qu-wordBreak--break-word qu-textAlign--start">Drinking alcohol causes the greatest risk of heart attack, increase blood pressure and heart disease.</p>
<p class="q-text qu-display--block qu-wordBreak--break-word qu-textAlign--start">&gt;PANCREATITIS</p>
<p class="q-text qu-display--block qu-wordBreak--break-word qu-textAlign--start">The Pancreas help to regulate the body’s blood sugar. The Pancreas also digest food when we eat. Drinking cause inflammation of the pancreas which causes abdominal pain and weight loss.</p>
<p class="q-text qu-display--block qu-wordBreak--break-word qu-textAlign--start">OTHER ISSUES</p>
<p class="q-text qu-display--block qu-wordBreak--break-word qu-textAlign--start">There are many other problems related to drinking. As soon as you recognize it, you will know that you have a problem or the beginnings of a problem. Problems include thinking often about drinking, trying to stop drinking but unable to do, feeling guilty and embarrassed.</p>
<p class="q-text qu-display--block qu-wordBreak--break-word qu-textAlign--start">After reading these effects of alcoholism you sure want to quit alcohol. Quitting alcohol can be a life-altering decision and when you quit alcohol you will see how your life will improve. Here are the changes in your body when you quit alcohol.</p>
<p class="q-text qu-display--block qu-wordBreak--break-word qu-textAlign--start">After 1 hour</p>
<p class="q-text qu-display--block qu-wordBreak--break-word qu-textAlign--start">&gt;Body kicks into full-blown detox mode to clear the alcohol from your body.</p>
<p class="q-text qu-display--block qu-wordBreak--break-word qu-textAlign--start">&gt;Liver starts working overtime.</p>
<p class="q-text qu-display--block qu-wordBreak--break-word qu-textAlign--start">&gt;Pancreas starts producing extra insulin which causes intense carb craving.</p>
<p class="q-text qu-display--block qu-wordBreak--break-word qu-textAlign--start">After 12–24 hours</p>
<p class="q-text qu-display--block qu-wordBreak--break-word qu-textAlign--start">&gt; Blood sugar normalizes.</p>
<p class="q-text qu-display--block qu-wordBreak--break-word qu-textAlign--start">&gt; Because of the diuretic effect booze has on bodies, you are going to be Dehydration.</p>
<p class="q-text qu-display--block qu-wordBreak--break-word qu-textAlign--start">After 48 hours</p>
<p class="q-text qu-display--block qu-wordBreak--break-word qu-textAlign--start">&gt; Your body finishes its biggest detox hurdle.</p>
<p class="q-text qu-display--block qu-wordBreak--break-word qu-textAlign--start">&gt; Cause headaches and tiredness.</p>
<p class="q-text qu-display--block qu-wordBreak--break-word qu-textAlign--start">After 72 hours</p>
<p class="q-text qu-display--block qu-wordBreak--break-word qu-textAlign--start">&gt; Hangover side effects now out from your body you will start sleeping more deeply.</p>
<p class="q-text qu-display--block qu-wordBreak--break-word qu-textAlign--start">&gt;Energy will restore.</p>
<p class="q-text qu-display--block qu-wordBreak--break-word qu-textAlign--start">&gt;Quicker immune response in your body.</p>
<p class="q-text qu-display--block qu-wordBreak--break-word qu-textAlign--start">After 1 week</p>
<p class="q-text qu-display--block qu-wordBreak--break-word qu-textAlign--start">&gt;Skin begins to look dewier and more youthful.</p>
<p class="q-text qu-display--block qu-wordBreak--break-word qu-textAlign--start">&gt;Hydration restores.</p>
<p class="q-text qu-display--block qu-wordBreak--break-word qu-textAlign--start">&gt;Reversal of alcohol-related liver damage.</p>
<p class="q-text qu-display--block qu-wordBreak--break-word qu-textAlign--start">After 1 month</p>
<p class="q-text qu-display--block qu-wordBreak--break-word qu-textAlign--start">&gt;15% increasing its ability to filter toxins out of the body.</p>
<p class="q-text qu-display--block qu-wordBreak--break-word qu-textAlign--start">&gt;Metabolism will restore leading to fat loss</p>
<p class="q-text qu-display--block qu-wordBreak--break-word qu-textAlign--start">&gt;Reduce risk of cancer and decreased stress level.</p>
<p class="q-text qu-display--block qu-wordBreak--break-word qu-textAlign--start">After 1 year</p>
<p class="q-text qu-display--block qu-wordBreak--break-word qu-textAlign--start">&gt; Risk of mouth, liver and breast cancers reduces.</p>
<p class="q-text qu-display--block qu-wordBreak--break-word qu-textAlign--start">&gt; Blood pressure and pulse drop.</p>
<p class="q-text qu-display--block qu-wordBreak--break-word qu-textAlign--start">&gt; Your liver fat will start decreasing.</p>
<p class="q-text qu-display--block qu-wordBreak--break-word qu-textAlign--start">After quitting alcohol you will feel that your life will improve. These are some reasons to quit alcohol. Though it’s not easy to quit but not impossible. There are many hospitals which provide Alcohol De-addiction services. <a href="https://wbcindia.quora.com/HOW-QUITTING-ALCOHOL-CHANGES-YOUR-BODY" target="_blank" rel="noopener">source</a></p>
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<h2><span style="color: #ff0000;">Stopping Drinking Safely: Understanding the Detox Process</span></h2>
<p>If you decide to stop drinking, it is important to remember that it will take some time for your body to physically wean itself away from alcohol. This is because over time, the central nervous system adjusts to the depressive effects of alcohol, which causes the brain to ramp up its response in order for the body to stay functional. In the absence of alcohol, this altered state causes a range of physical responses that make up what we know as withdrawal.</p>
<h3><em><strong>How Long Does it Take to Detox from Alcohol?</strong></em></h3>
<p>For people who have a moderate dependency on alcohol, the first 24 hours of sobriety may be uncomfortable as their bodies detoxify, but after three days generally people begin to feel better. Most people will have completely recovered from the physical symptoms of withdrawal after a month, and are beginning to notice their health returning at this time.</p>
<p>For heavier drinkers, symptoms of withdrawal may be more severe and require medically-supervised detox. Like for moderate drinkers, these symptoms will begin within 24 hours of stopping alcohol use, but generally continue for a longer period of time.</p>
<h3><em><strong>Symptoms of Alcohol Withdrawal</strong></em></h3>
<p>Symptoms of withdrawal can differ based on the severity of the body’s dependency on alcohol, as well as what stage of withdrawal you are in. Generally, symptoms can occur as follows:</p>
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<li aria-level="1"><em><strong>6 hours after your last drink:</strong> </em>Symptoms during this period can feel a lot like a hangover, and may include things like a headache, nausea, sweating, vomiting, shaky hands, anxiety, and insomnia.</li>
<li aria-level="1"><em><strong>12-48 hours after your last drink:</strong> </em>During this time, more serious problems can develop, including seizures and hallucinations.</li>
<li aria-level="1"><em><strong>48-72 hours after your last drink:</strong></em> A small percentage of people will experience deliriums tremens, or DTs, a severe symptom of withdrawal marked by delusions and lifelike hallucinations. This can be accompanied by heavy sweating, fever, elevated blood pressure, confusion, and a racing heartbeat.</li>
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<p>If you are unsure of how your body will react to quitting drinking, consider reaching out to an addiction specialist to talk through different detox options and get a sense of what the first phase of recovery may involve. <a href="https://thedawnrehab.com/infographic/these-7-body-benefits-will-spur-you-to-quit-drinking/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">source</a></p>
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<p>Alcohol use can also lead to more lasting concerns that extend beyond your own mood and health.</p>
<p>Some long-term effects of frequently drinking alcohol can include:</p>
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<li>persistent changes in mood, including anxiety and irritability</li>
<li>insomnia and other sleep concerns</li>
<li>a weakened immune system, meaning you might get sick more often</li>
<li>changes in libido and sexual function</li>
<li>changes in appetite and weight</li>
<li>problems with memory and concentration</li>
<li>difficulty focusing on tasks</li>
<li>increased tension and conflict in romantic and family relationships</li>
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<p>Here’s a breakdown of alcohol’s effects on your internal organs and body processes.</p>
<h3>Digestive and endocrine glands</h3>
<p>Drinking too much alcohol over time may cause inflammation of the pancreas, resulting in pancreatitis. Pancreatitis can activate the release of pancreatic digestive enzymes and cause abdominal pain.</p>
<p>Pancreatitis can become a long-term condition and cause serious complications.</p>
<h3>Inflammatory damage</h3>
<p>Your liver helps break down and remove toxins and harmful substances (including alcohol) from your body.</p>
<p>Long-term alcohol use interferes with this process. It also increases your risk for alcohol-related liver disease and chronic liver inflammation:</p>
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<li>Alcohol-related liver disease is a potentially life threatening condition that leads to toxins and waste buildup in your body.</li>
<li>Chronic liver inflammation can cause scarring, or cirrhosis. When scar tissue forms, it may permanently damage your liver.</li>
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<h3>Sugar levels</h3>
<p>The pancreas helps regulate how your body uses insulin and responds to glucose. If your pancreas and liver don’t function properly due to pancreatitis or liver disease, you could experience low blood sugar, or hypoglycemia.</p>
<p>A damaged pancreas can also prevent your body from producing enough insulin to use sugar. This can lead to hyperglycemia, or too much sugar in the blood.</p>
<p>If your body can’t manage and balance your blood sugar levels, you may experience greater complications and side effects related to diabetes.</p>
<p>Experts recommend avoiding excessive amounts of alcohol if you have diabetes or hypoglycemia.</p>
<h3>Central nervous system</h3>
<p>One major way to recognize alcohol’s impact on your body? Understanding how it affects your central nervous system.</p>
<p>Slurred speech, a key sign of intoxication, happens because alcohol reduces communication between your brain and body. This makes speech and coordination — think reaction time and balance — more difficult. That’s one major reason why you should never drive after drinking.</p>
<p>Over time, alcohol can cause damage to your central nervous system. You might notice numbness and tingling in your feet and hands.</p>
<p>Drinking can also affect your ability to:</p>
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<li>create long-term memories</li>
<li>think clearly</li>
<li>make rational choices</li>
<li>regulate your emotions</li>
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<p>Over time, drinking can also damage your frontal lobe, the part of the brain responsible for executive functions, like abstract reasoning, decision making, social behavior, and performance.</p>
<p>Chronic heavy drinking can also cause permanent brain damage, including Wernicke-Korsakoff syndrome, a brain disorder that affects memory.</p>
<h3>Digestive system</h3>
<p>The connection between alcohol consumption and your digestive system might not seem immediately clear. The side effects often only appear after the damage has happened. Continuing to drink can worsen these symptoms.</p>
<p>Drinking can damage the tissues in your digestive tract, preventing your intestines from digesting food and absorbing nutrients and vitamins properly. In time, this damage can cause malnutrition.</p>
<p>Heavy drinking can also lead to:</p>
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<li>gas</li>
<li>bloating</li>
<li>feeling of fullness in your abdomen</li>
<li>diarrhea or painful stools</li>
<li>ulcers or hemorrhoids (due to dehydration and constipation)</li>
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<p>Ulcers can cause dangerous internal bleeding, which can sometimes be fatal without prompt diagnosis and treatment.</p>
<h3>Circulatory system</h3>
<p>Chronic drinking can affect your heart and lungs, raising your risk of developing heart-related health issues.</p>
<p>Circulatory system complications include:</p>
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<li>high blood pressure</li>
<li>irregular heartbeat</li>
<li>difficulty pumping blood through the body</li>
<li>stroke</li>
<li>heart attack</li>
<li>heart disease</li>
<li>heart failure</li>
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<p>Difficulty absorbing vitamins and minerals from food can cause fatigue and anemia, a condition where you have a low red blood cell count.</p>
<h3>Sexual and reproductive health</h3>
<p>Drinking alcohol can lower your inhibitions, so you might assume alcohol can ramp up your fun in the bedroom.</p>
<p>In reality, though, heavy drinking can:</p>
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<li>prevent sex hormone production</li>
<li>lower your libido</li>
<li>keep you from getting or maintaining an erection</li>
<li>make it difficult to achieve orgasm</li>
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<p>Excessive drinking may affect your menstrual cycle and potentially increase your risk for infertility.</p>
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<p class="standout--body">That’s because drinking during pregnancy doesn’t just affect your health. It can lead to miscarriage, stillbirth, or premature delivery.</p>
<p>Children exposed to alcohol in the womb may experience a range of complications after birth, including:</p>
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<li>long-term health issues</li>
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<h3>Skeletal and muscle systems</h3>
<p>Long-term alcohol use can affect bone density, leading to thinner bones and increasing your risk of fractures if you fall. Weakened bones may also heal slower.</p>
<p>Drinking alcohol can also lead to muscle weakness, cramping, and eventually atrophy.</p>
<h3>Immune system</h3>
<p>Drinking heavily reduces your body’s natural immune system. A weakened immune system has a harder time protecting you from germs and viruses.</p>
<p>People who drink heavily over a long period of time are also more likely to develop pneumonia or tuberculosis than the general population. The World Health Organization (WHO) links about 8.1 percent<span class="css-1471oxf icon-hl-trusted-source-after"><span class="sro">Trusted Source</span></span> of all tuberculosis cases worldwide to alcohol consumption.</p>
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<li>Frequent drinking can increase your risk of developing mouth, throat, breast, esophagus, colon, or liver cancer.</li>
<li>Drinking and using tobacco together can further increase your risk<span class="css-1471oxf icon-hl-trusted-source-after"><span class="sro">Trusted Source</span></span> of developing mouth or throat cancer.</li>
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<p>Long-term alcohol use can lead to changes in your brain that can affect your:</p>
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<li>impulse control</li>
<li>emotions, mood, and personality</li>
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<p>Regular drinking can also affect overall mental health and well-being, in part because alcohol may worsen symptoms of certain mental health conditions, including anxiety, depression, and bipolar disorder.</p>
<p>You might also notice feelings of anxiety with a hangover.</p>
<h3>Alcohol-induced mental health conditions</h3>
<p>Alcohol use can factor into mental health symptoms that closely resemble those of other mental health conditions.</p>
<p>The latest edition of The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5), which mental health professionals use to diagnose mental health conditions, includes diagnostic criteria for:</p>
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<li>alcohol-induced bipolar disorder</li>
<li>alcohol-induced psychotic disorder</li>
<li>alcohol-induced sleep disorder</li>
<li>alcohol-induced depressive disorder</li>
<li>alcohol-induced anxiety disorder</li>
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<p>With these conditions, you’ll only notice symptoms during alcohol intoxication or withdrawal. These symptoms typically improve quickly when alcohol use stops.</p>
<h3>Dependence</h3>
<p>Some people who drink eventually develop a tolerance to alcohol. As a result, they eventually need to drink more to notice the same effects they once did.</p>
<p>Drinking alcohol on a regular basis can also lead to dependence, which means your body and brain have grown used to alcohol’s effects.</p>
<p>When you stop drinking, you might notice a range of physical, emotional, or mental health symptoms that ease as soon as you have a drink.</p>
<p>Tolerance and dependence can both happen as symptoms of alcohol use disorder, a mental health condition previously referred to as alcoholism, that happens when your body becomes dependent on alcohol. This condition can be mild, moderate, or severe, depending on the number of symptoms you have.</p>
<p>Key symptoms may include:</p>
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<li>cravings</li>
<li>withdrawal</li>
<li>drinking more over time</li>
<li>having difficulty stopping after one drink</li>
<li>inability to stop drinking when you try</li>
<li>continuing to drink alcohol even when it has a negative impact on your health or daily life</li>
<li>spending a lot of time on activities related to alcohol use</li>
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<p>Learn more about the signs of alcohol use disorder.</p>
<h3>Alcohol withdrawal</h3>
<p>Alcohol withdrawal can be difficult and, in some cases, life threatening. Depending on how often you drink and how much, you may need support from a healthcare professional if you want to stop drinking.</p>
<p>It’s always best to connect with your doctor before quitting alcohol. The “cold turkey” approach might not always be safe.</p>
<p>Symptoms of alcohol withdrawal include:</p>
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<li>anxiety</li>
<li>nervousness</li>
<li>nausea</li>
<li>tremors</li>
<li>high blood pressure</li>
<li>irregular heartbeat</li>
<li>heavy sweating</li>
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<p>Seizures, hallucinations, and delirium may occur in severe cases of withdrawal.</p>
<p>Medical detoxification can help you stop drinking safely. Your doctor may recommend treatment at a clinic or at home, depending on your risk for withdrawal symptoms.</p>
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<p>Certain factors may increase your chances of experiencing alcohol use disorder.</p>
<p>Some of these include:</p>
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<li>heavy drinking</li>
<li>binge drinking</li>
<li>ongoing stress</li>
<li>having peers or family members who drink a lot of alcohol</li>
<li>having genes that affect your sensitivity to alcohol</li>
<li>having anxiety, depression, schizophrenia, or another mental health condition</li>
<li>having a close relative, especially a parent, with the condition</li>
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<h1 class="post_title">3 Ways Your Appearance Changes When You Quit Drinking</h1>
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<p>Alcoholism can ravage all aspects of your life, altering your behavior, damaging your relationships, wrecking your health, and destroying your self-esteem. Over time, the toll of alcoholism can leave you feeling and looking different from the person you want to be. You will see many beneficial appearance changes after you quit drinking, including in the mirror.</p>
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<h1>Negative Effects of Alcohol</h1>
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<div class="vM0jzc" aria-hidden="false" data-ved="2ahUKEwikt5ydioGGAxXNke4BHdwhCyIQrfULegQIPhAB">Alcohol can cause chronic diseases like heart disease, stroke, liver disease, and digestive problems. It can also damage your heart, causing problems like cardiomyopathy, arrhythmias, and high blood pressure. Heavy drinking can lead to liver inflammations, including fatty liver, alcoholic hepatitis, fibrosis, and cirrhosis.</div>
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<h3>Short-Term Health Risks</h3>
<p>Excessive alcohol use has immediate effects that increase the risk of many harmful health conditions. These are most often the result of binge drinking and include the following:</p>
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<li>Injuries, such as motor vehicle crashes, falls, drownings, and burns.<sup>6,7</sup></li>
<li>Violence, including homicide, suicide, sexual assault, and intimate partner violence.<sup>6-10</sup></li>
<li>Alcohol poisoning, a medical emergency that results from high blood alcohol levels.<sup>11</sup></li>
<li>Risky sexual behaviors, including unprotected sex or sex with multiple partners. These behaviors can result in unintended pregnancy or sexually transmitted diseases, including HIV.<sup>12,13</sup></li>
<li>Miscarriage and stillbirth or fetal alcohol spectrum disorders (FASDs) among pregnant women.<sup>6,12,14,15</sup></li>
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<h3>Long-Term Health Risks</h3>
<p>Over time, excessive alcohol use can lead to the development of chronic diseases and other serious problems including:</p>
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<li>High blood pressure, heart disease, stroke, liver disease, and digestive problems.<sup>6,16</sup></li>
<li>Cancer of the breast, mouth, throat, esophagus, voice box, liver, colon, and rectum.<sup>6,17</sup></li>
<li>Weakening of the immune system, increasing the chances of getting sick.<sup>6,16</sup></li>
<li>Learning and memory problems, including dementia and poor school performance.<sup>6,18</sup></li>
<li>Mental health problems, including depression and anxiety.<sup>6,19</sup></li>
<li>Social problems, including family problems, job-related problems, and unemployment.<sup>6,20,21</sup></li>
<li>Alcohol use disorders, or alcohol dependence.<sup>5</sup></li>
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<p>By quitting drinking, you can reduce the risk of these short- and long-term health risks. <a href="https://www.cdc.gov/alcohol/fact-sheets/alcohol-use.htm#:~:text=High%20blood%20pressure%2C%20heart%20disease,liver%20disease%2C%20and%20digestive%20problems.&amp;text=Cancer%20of%20the%20breast%2C%20mouth,liver%2C%20colon%2C%20and%20rectum.&amp;text=Weakening%20of%20the%20immune%20system%2C%20increasing%20the%20chances%20of%20getting%20sick.&amp;text=Learning%20and%20memory%20problems%2C%20including%20dementia%20and%20poor%20school%20performance." target="_blank" rel="noopener">source</a></p>
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<p><strong>Below are three ways quitting alcohol can help you look (and feel) your best.</strong></p>
<h2>1. You Will Lose Weight</h2>
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<p><strong>While Drinking:</strong> Consuming alcohol in excess can significantly impact someone’s body shape. For starters, alcohol is very high in calories.  There are seven calories in every gram of alcohol; for context, protein holds four calories per gram and fat has nine calories per gram. In addition, drinking alcohol activates the brain cells in the hypothalamus that make people feel hungry. This is the reason why after a night of drinking people tend to have the munchies. Lots of drinks plus extra eating equals a lot more calories than your body needs.</p>
<p>Alcohol also makes it more difficult for your body to burn any foods you eat. The body flags alcohol as a toxin, and the liver focuses on breaking down alcohol before any fat, carbohydrate, or protein. When the liver is constantly working to process alcohol rather than food, you start to gain weight. In the case of heavy drinkers, alcohol can cause so much damage to the liver that it stops functioning properly, which can lead to deadly conditions such as fatty liver disease or cirrhosis.</p>
<p><strong>After Quitting:</strong> Weight loss happens during sobriety when someone replaces their old habits with new ones: sticking to healthier meals, no longer binge eating extra food while drinking, and, of course, no longer drinking all those empty calories. After quitting alcohol, your body can once again focus on metabolizing nutrients.</p>
<h2>2. Your Skin Will Glow</h2>
<p><strong>While Drinking:</strong> When you are struggling with alcoholism, your skin is probably the least of your concerns. But the effects of drinking may be more serious than you think. Alcohol is a diuretic, which means that it causes more water to be processed through the kidneys. This leaves you dehydrated and causes dry patches, dull skin, fine lines, and dark under-eye circles. Your skin may become sensitive to the touch and feel uncomfortable, even itchy.</p>
<p>Chronic alcohol consumption also elevates the level of the stress hormone cortisol in the body, triggering alcohol-related premature aging. This stress can break down the skin’s collagen and cause inflammation, leading to wrinkles. Cortisol can also aggravate other skin conditions like rosacea or acne, causing flareups and breakouts.</p>
<p><strong>After Quitting: </strong>By replacing alcoholic drinks with plenty of water, you are allowing your skin to rehydrate and flush out toxins through urine and sweat. Your skin will regain its natural, healthy glow as you replenish the necessary vitamins and minerals lost from active addiction.</p>
<h2>3. Your Hair Will Grow</h2>
<p><strong>While Drinking:</strong> When alcohol dehydrates your body, it also dehydrates your hair. The lack of moisture causes thinning, hair loss, and dandruff on the scalp.  Hair shedding is compounded by alcohol triggering increased production of cortisol and the hormone estrogen.</p>
<p>Alcohol also inhibits nutrient absorption by harming the lining of your digestive system over time, damaging your intestines until they can’t transfer nutrients to the blood. Without proper protein, the production of keratin slows; this protective agent bonds hair cells together and your hair becomes prone to split ends and breakage. Similarly, zinc and folic acid, which are essential for hair growth, aren’t soaked up by your follicles.</p>
<p><strong>After Quitting:</strong> Your hair will regain its former strength as your body begins to repair itself from the effects of alcohol. The rate your hair grows will increase, and you’ll notice the change from hair loss to fuller, shinier locks.</p>
<p>Leaving alcohol behind and pursuing sobriety brings favorable changes to your appearance that you might not have anticipated. As you start to look good, you’ll feel good about yourself, and when you look in the mirror, you’ll see the old you again. <a href="https://mountainside.com/blog/alcohol/3-ways-your-appearance-changes-when-you-quit-drinking/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">source</a></p>
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<p>I come from a family of drinkers so I grew up around alcohol. Whether we were celebrating or commiserating, alcohol was always involved. My paternal grandfather was actually born in a pub and named after it.</p>
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<p>From about the age of 15, I started experimenting with drinking alcohol at local parks with friends. The first time I drank when I was out was at a local youth disco. We probably didn&#8217;t even drink that much and it wasn&#8217;t a late night, but we got very drunk and an on-site ambulance service had to tend to us. But you only remember the fun parts, so it went on from there.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m 45 now, so my generation grew up in the &#8217;80s and &#8217;90s, during the rave scene in the U.K. All the people I hung out with drank. We&#8217;d go to bars and clubs and we had some really good times but it was just a given that you drank. I never really questioned it.</p>
<p>I got into a cycle of drinking every weekend and recovering at the start of the week. Then mid week would arrive and I would start having a few drinks in the evenings, waiting for the weekend to come. That went on for years. <a href="https://www.newsweek.com/quit-alcohol-life-transformed-1629761" target="_blank" rel="noopener">source</a></p>
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<p>By the time I was 34 years old, I was getting up every day and drinking alcohol. I knew where I could buy the cheapest hard liquor with the highest percentage of alcohol and no matter where I went, I usually had a mini bottle or two of liquor in my pocket.</p>
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<div id="google_ads_iframe_/43459271,22541732127/newsweek/inarticle1_0__container__">The same year—2016—I was driving home from a date with my wife one night when she asked for my coat to use as a blanket. When I realized I had mini bottles of liquor in the pockets, I selfishly told her I wanted my coat back for myself, just so I could hide the alcohol from her and so she wouldn&#8217;t realize I was driving while likely over the limit. At that time, I also always drank the moment I got home from work. Sometimes I couldn&#8217;t wait and I drank on the way home and I would be drunk when I arrived. My life was an absolute train wreck.</div>
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<p>Growing up in Vancouver, alcohol was always a fixture in my home. But though my parents both drank, they weren&#8217;t alcoholics and I only started drinking during senior year in high school as a way to socialize. In college, and throughout my 20s, I only ever consumed two or three drinks at a time; I could take it or leave it. I didn&#8217;t consider my drinking to be problematic, although I suspect a doctor may tell you differently.</p>
<p>I had also been an obese child and then struggled with my weight my whole life. In 2012, at 30 years old and nearly 350lbs, I had gastric bypass surgery. In less than a year I lost 190lbs. The surgery meant that alcohol was digested differently, it was sort of like drinking on an empty stomach. Soon, I began to notice that my relationship with alcohol had changed. I regularly needed to quench an absolutely uncontrollable thirst for alcohol; I wanted to drink until I was sick or blacked out.</p>
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<div>I would tell my wife that something wasn&#8217;t right and stop drinking for a month or two. I even had one stretch of sobriety that lasted 14 months; I felt I&#8217;d taken care of the problem. But when I drank after that, even though I would swear to myself that I would only have one or two, I would end up having 12 to 24 alcoholic drinks a night in secret.</div>
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<p>Sometimes I would buy wine in a box, decant it into a litre sized water bottle in the garage or bathroom and slug that down quickly. My behaviour became erratic and I wasn&#8217;t able to meet my commitments at work. When I was drunk, I would look in the mirror and say, &#8220;How did I get like this?&#8221; and then the next might I would be drunk again.</p>
<p>I was also an emotional wreck. I had trouble relating to my family and I would get angry very easily. I was irritable, restless and I didn&#8217;t sleep well. I got to a point where I knew that if I didn&#8217;t reach out for help, I would be a dead man.</p>
<p>On November 2, 2016, I had a week of vacation starting and I bought myself a case of 24 beers. I was going to ration them out and have three or four beers a night. I put my son to bed at 8pm and cracked open my first beer. By 11pm I had finished 19 of them. Something inside of me said: &#8220;Kenny, your life is no longer manageable.&#8221; It was true.</p>
<p>I reached out to a friend of mine who I knew was in recovery from alcoholism, something I had never done before. The next morning she took me to a meeting for addicts. I knew I was home amongst those people because each of them told a story that could have been mine. I finally realized then: I&#8217;m an alcoholic.</p>
<p>In the 12 Step program I learned that stopping on my own is not something that I have the physical or emotional capability of doing. That program worked for me, but if something else works for other people, that&#8217;s great. There are many ways to get sober and 12 Step is just one of them. However, it was foolish of me to stop drinking on my own without consulting a doctor.</p>
<p>In that first week I had to call a complete stranger, someone who had been through the program, and ask them to be my sponsor. That was hell. But that guy told me to call him and go to a meeting every day. When I said that was too much, I remember he replied, &#8220;well, you drank every day.&#8221; I had no rebuttal.</p>
<p>For the first 30 days I was on what is called the &#8220;pink cloud.&#8221; I was very happy; it was like coming out of a bad relationship. The &#8220;pink cloud&#8221; ended when my sponsor said that I had to clean up the mess I had made of my life and all the people that I had harmed. That was when it got difficult and I started having doubts about recovery. You have to address what led you down the path to wanting to alter your state in the first place. I just wanted my life back, but instead I was encouraged to fix the old one.</p>
<p>It took me about 10 months to get through all 12 Steps and eventually I chose to put my trust in a higher power, something I was taught by the program, though it doesn&#8217;t have to be God.</p>
<p>I realized that I had been angry about many things in my life, all the way from childhood. Part of the program is recognizing that and letting it go. Then you have to make a list of all the people that you&#8217;ve harmed and make amends to them. It&#8217;s not just apologizing, you actually have to mend the situation.</p>
<p>When I was drinking I would go onto social media every night and lash out at people. I was angry, spiteful and resentful to my friends and peers, and sometimes strangers. I had a lot of situations that I needed to make right.</p>
<p>I had also stolen from people and I had to pay them back. That was hard. I&#8217;m a family man so it was difficult for me to accept that I had stolen whilst under the influence of alcohol, or in order to become under the influence of alcohol.</p>
<p>So, life as a sober person was very difficult at the beginning. Although my wife doesn&#8217;t drink, I couldn&#8217;t go to places where alcohol was served and I became a bit of an introvert. At our family Christmas in 2016, I noticed there was no alcohol and a few hours in I asked my father why they weren&#8217;t drinking. He told me not to worry. I realized my family had collectively decided to abstain from alcohol for my sake. It was very emotional and it absolutely meant the world to me. Now, I don&#8217;t have an issue being around alcohol, but it was hard for a while. <a href="https://www.newsweek.com/i-quit-alcohol-life-changed-completely-1597089" target="_blank" rel="noopener">source</a></p>
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<h2 class="article-headline">Oklahoma family documents journey as pet octopus has 50 babies</h2>
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<p class="article-subtitle">Just two months after the family had welcomed their new pet, Terrance,</p>
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<p>One Oklahoma family is growing after its pet octopus laid 50 eggs late last year, according to the Clifford family’s TikTok account @doctoktupus.</p>
<p>In October, Cameron Clifford, lovingly dubbed “octodad,” bought his son an adult female Bimac Octopus from California and named her Terrance. In December, Terrance laid 50 eggs that began hatching in February.</p>
<p>Clifford has been documenting the family’s journey on TikTok.</p>
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<p>“Surprising my son with an aquarium so he can fulfill a lifelong dream of owning a pet octopus,” Clifford wrote in a March video as his son tearfully thanked him for the surprise.</p>
<p>Terrance arrived at the family’s home in a clear plastic bag inside of a styrofoam box. The following videos on their account show the Clifford family setting up and taking care of Terrance’s new home.</p>
<p>“Terrance is one social cephalopod—she requires lots of daily stimulation/attention to stay healthy and happy” one of the videos is captioned.</p>
<p>Just two months after the family had welcomed Terrance, she began laying several eggs. According to the University of Chicago, a mother octopus lays her eggs and then begins to stop eating, causing her to die before her offspring is born.</p>
<p>On March 26, the Cliffords posted an update saying they expected Terrance to die in the following weeks. Much to their surprise, Terrance is still thriving.</p>
<p>“We had always stayed in constant contact with our bimac experts, one of which had cared for dozens of bimacs through the years, and none of them had ever laid fertile eggs,” the family explained in a clip. “Even educational and research facilities struggle with hatching them in captivity but this occurred 3 feet from my son’s bed in Central Oklahoma,” the post continued.</p>
<p>Soon enough, Terrance’s tank was full of octopus toddlers.</p>
<p>Their video diary chronicles the lengths the Clifford parents went to take care of Terrance and her offspring, including extensive research.</p>
<p>Although not all 50 hatchlings were able to survive, the family welcomed Pearl, Melinda, Jay-Sea, Sea-yonceeé, Rocket Larry, and a few others to their growing family.</p>
<p>Terrance continues to be fed by hand for now while the babies stay with a local reptile scientist, Clifford told the New York Post.</p>
<p>The family is looking for professional care for the hatchlings. <a href="https://www.nbcdfw.com/news/national-international/oklahoma-pet-octopus-babies/3510397/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">source</a></p>
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<h1>Terrance the octopus came to live with a family. Then she laid dozens of eggs</h1>
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<p>It&#8217;s not all that unusual to see octopus on a restaurant menu. But an octopus as a family pet?</p>
<p>Cameron Clifford of Edmond, Okla. says his 9-year-old son Cal is a huge fan of the eight-legged creatures.</p>
<p>&#8220;One of the funny things, the misconceptions I think that people assume, is that this was kind of like a flavor of the week for my son, you know, and we&#8217;re kind of just these parents that will placate him with any material thing,&#8221; Clifford told NPR. &#8220;But he&#8217;s a real bright kid and he has absolutely loved octopuses since he was, like, 2 years old.&#8221;</p>
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<p>When Cal came home from school to find all of the equipment it would take to house a pet octopus, he was completely overcome. Clifford filmed the response and posted it to TikTok, starting a journey the family would continue to document.</p>
<p>After days of calibrating the water in an enormous tank to be sure it could support a cephalopod, the two-spot octopus they named Terrance arrived.</p>
<p>Angelina Komatovich is a marine biologist at Orange Coast College in Costa Mesa, Calif., who has taken care of octopuses professionally.</p>
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<p>&#8220;When I first heard of Terrance the octopus, I was actually very surprised to find out that there was a two-spot octopus living all the way across the country in Oklahoma,&#8221; she told NPR. &#8220;But in that aquarium, they had everything that they needed. They had the cold water. They had a nice sized aquarium for this octopus to live in. But it was really cool to see that this octopus was sourced from a reputable place and being very well taken care of.&#8221;</p>
<p>Though the Clifford family was as prepared as possible to welcome Terrance, there was one thing they missed. It turns out Terrance was pregnant. And she laid dozens of eggs.</p>
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<p>Now Clifford and Cal, with help from a friend, are taking care of more than 20 tiny octopus babies, along with Terrance. They need around-the-clock care, and even then, Komatovich says, few are likely to survive.</p>
<p>&#8220;Only one or two of these would be expected to live into adulthood in an aquarium setting under perfect conditions,&#8221; she said. &#8220;But that&#8217;s a lot of octopuses for one family to take care of.&#8221;</p>
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<p>Terrance is doing well after launching her many offspring, but the Clifford family isn&#8217;t taking that for granted. Once a two-spot octopus lays her eggs, she typically won&#8217;t live much longer.</p>
<p>The jury is still out on whether one of Terrance&#8217;s babies will become a permanent member of the Clifford household.</p>
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<p>But come what may, Komatovich believes Cal has a bright future ahead of him.</p>
<p>&#8220;I definitely see a future marine biologist right there. And it&#8217;s so exciting to see someone so young interested in cephalopods,&#8221; she said. <a href="https://www.npr.org/2024/04/09/1243710100/terrance-octopus-two-spot-tiktok-eggs-family-pet" target="_blank" rel="noopener">source</a></p>
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<p class="text | article-text">EDMOND, Okla. (CNN) &#8211; An Oklahoma boy had dreamed of owning an octopus since he was 2, but when his dream became reality, he suddenly ended up with 50 of them when his pet gave birth.</p>
<p class="text | article-text">Cal Clifford, 9, cried with joy when his parents gave him the tank he would soon use to hold his new pet octopus. The octopus itself was delivered in a plastic bag to the family.</p>
<p class="text | article-text">Cal and his family named the octopus Terrance, and their whole experience with their new pet was documented on TikTok.</p>
<p class="text | article-text">“Terrance loves to welcome us every time we visit her. High-eight,” said Cal in a video on TikTok.</p>
<p class="text | article-text">Within weeks, Cal’s dad, Cameron Clifford, says the family found out that the octopus was a female.</p>
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<p class="text | article-text">Terrance, newly redubbed Terry, started acting weird, such as not leaving the cave in her tank, the family said on TikTok. They then noticed she had laid eggs, but no one imagined they’d been fertilized.</p>
<p class="text | article-text">“The uh-oh moment was definitely when the first one hatched,” Clifford said.</p>
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<p class="text | article-text">Suddenly, one octopus had become many. Cal got emotional as he took a first look at the hatchlings – 50 in total. Each baby had to be cared for in a separate container.</p>
<p class="text | article-text">“The babies will actually cannibalize each other,” Clifford said.</p>
<p class="text | article-text">They were given names like Rocket Larry, Squid Cudi, Swim Shady, Jay-Sea and Sea-Yoncé, according to the Associated Press.</p>
<p class="text | article-text">The family learned that octopuses make for expensive pets. Leaks in the tank system required vacuuming carpets and re-laying ruined floors.</p>
<p class="text | article-text">“I wish my son’s favorite animal had been a hamster,” said Clifford in a TikTok video.</p>
<p class="text | article-text">Almost half of the baby octopuses survived, and they are destined for educational institutions.</p>
<p class="text | article-text">Sadly, Terry died just a few months later and was buried in the Cliffords’ backyard. It’s typical for her species of octopus that the mom dies after laying eggs.</p>
<p class="text | article-text">Octopuses generally live between one to five years, according to the American Veterinary Medical Association. <a href="https://www.kktv.com/2024/04/24/boys-pet-octopus-shocks-family-by-giving-birth-50-babies/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">source</a></p>
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<h2>Are you interested in learning more about the Egyptian Goose?</h2>
<p>This bird is native to Africa and has become a popular species around the world. Egyptian Geese are fascinating creatures that have unique characteristics and behaviors. In this article, we will explore ten fun facts about the Egyptian Goose that you may not know about.</p>
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<h2>1. Appearance and Physical Features</h2>
<p>Egyptian Geese have a striking appearance with their chestnut brown feathers, distinctive eye markings, and long necks. They are medium-sized birds, with males weighing around 1.6 kg and females weighing around 1.4 kg. Their wingspan is about 1.6 meters, and their height ranges from 63 to 73 centimeters.</p>
<h2>2. Habitat and Range</h2>
<p>Egyptian Geese are found in a variety of habitats, including wetlands, savannas, and grasslands. They are widespread in <a href="https://www.kids-world-travel-guide.com/africa-facts.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Africa</a>, from the Nile Valley to the southern regions of the continent. In recent years, they have been introduced to other parts of the world, such as Europe and North America.</p>
<h2>3. Breeding Habits</h2>
<p>Egyptian Geese are monogamous and form strong pair bonds. They mate for life and remain together year-round. They usually breed during the rainy season when the water levels rise, providing more food and shelter for their offspring.</p>
<h2>4. Nesting Behaviors</h2>
<p>Egyptian Geese are territorial and often defend their nests aggressively. They build their nests in a variety of locations, including trees, shrubs, and on the ground. The female lays 5 to 12 eggs, and both parents take turns incubating the eggs for around 28 to 30 days.</p>
<h2>5. Vocalizations</h2>
<p>Egyptian Geese are known for their loud honking calls, which they use to communicate with each other. Their calls can be heard from long distances and are often used to mark their territory or to signal danger.</p>
<h2>6. Feeding Habits</h2>
<p>Egyptian Geese are herbivorous and mainly feed on grasses, seeds, and other vegetation. They will also eat insects and small aquatic animals if necessary. They are diurnal and are most active in the early morning and late afternoon.</p>
<h2>7. Social Behaviors</h2>
<p>Egyptian Geese are social birds and often gather in flocks, especially during the non-breeding season. They have a hierarchical social structure, with dominant birds leading the flock.</p>
<h2>8. Lifespan</h2>
<p>Egyptian Geese can live up to 25 years in the wild. However, their lifespan is often shorter due to predation, disease, or hunting.</p>
<h2>9. Relationship with Humans</h2>
<p>Egyptian Geese have a long history of association with humans, dating back to ancient Egyptian times. They were considered sacred by the Egyptians and were often depicted in their artwork. Today, they are often found in parks and gardens, where they are enjoyed by people for their beauty and unique behaviors.</p>
<h2>10. Conservation Status</h2>
<p>Egyptian Geese are not considered endangered, with their population being stable throughout much of their range. However, they face threats such as habitat loss, hunting, and competition with introduced species in some areas.</p>
<h2>Wrap-Up: 10 Fun Facts About the Egyptian Goose</h2>
<p>The Egyptian Goose is a fascinating bird with a unique set of behaviors and physical characteristics. Learning more about this species can help us appreciate the diversity of life on our planet and inspire us to protect the natural world.</p>
<h2>Fun Facts About the Egyptian Goose FAQs</h2>
<h3>What is an Egyptian Goose?</h3>
<p>The Egyptian Goose is a species of waterfowl native to Africa. They have distinctive brown and white feathers, with a dark brown patch around their eyes.</p>
<h3>Where do Egyptian Geese live?</h3>
<p>Egyptian Geese are found in various habitats across Africa, including wetlands, savannas, and grasslands. They are also commonly found in urban areas and can be seen in parks and gardens.</p>
<h3>What do Egyptian Geese eat?</h3>
<p>Egyptian Geese are omnivorous, meaning they eat both plants and animals. Their diet typically consists of grasses, seeds, and aquatic vegetation, as well as insects, snails, and small fish.</p>
<h3>Are Egyptian Geese endangered?</h3>
<p>No, Egyptian Geese are not considered endangered. In fact, they are quite common and can be found in many parts of Africa, as well as in other parts of the world where they have been introduced.</p>
<h3>Can Egyptian Geese fly?</h3>
<p>Yes, Egyptian Geese are capable of flight and can be seen flying in formation in the wild. They are also able to fly short distances when threatened or when moving between feeding sites.</p>
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<h3 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #3366ff;"><em>Dominate Yourself, All Others Now Defeated!</em></span></h3>
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<p>One of the most profound knowledge quests you will ever undertake is learning how to reprogram your subconscious mind. The power of your subconscious mind defines who you are in the deepest levels of your being.</p>
<p>Unfortunately, most people will spend their entire life trapped by their subconscious programs. We’ll explore exactly how to move into conscious awareness, retrain your neural pathways and build the life of your dreams.</p>
<p>This is your ultimate guide on how to reprogram your subconscious mind. Let’s dive in.</p>
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<h2><span id="What_is_the_subconscious_mind" class="ez-toc-section"></span><span style="font-size: 24pt;">What Is The Subconscious Mind?</span></h2>
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<p>As Joe Dispenza, leading neuroscience lecturer, puts it:</p>
<blockquote>
<h3><span style="color: #ff0000;"><b>“The subconscious is where all your bad habits and behaviors that you want to change reside.”</b></span></h3>
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<p>Your subconscious mind seeks to follow and play out programs.</p>
<p>Over and over again.</p>
<p>This is also known as a homeostatic impulse and is a good chunk of why so many people are stuck in lives that feel largely underwhelming and predictable.</p>
<p>The subconscious mind resists the unknown. Even if the known, and the accompanying patterns, are limiting and prevent you from moving forward.</p>
<p>Judgment and criticisms do not exist here. Instead, all that is processed here is black and white. So, you can’t communicate with the subconscious the same as the conscious mind.</p>
<p>The step-by-step guide you’re about to read will instill new beliefs and create subconscious programming that will drastically improve your inner world.</p>
<h2><span id="What%E2%80%99s_the_best_way_to_reprogram_your_subconscious_mind" class="ez-toc-section"></span><span style="font-size: 24pt;">What’s The Best Way To Reprogram Your Subconscious Mind?</span></h2>
<p>If you’re ready to start reprogramming by creating new neural pathways, here are the different techniques to transform your life.</p>
<p><b>Here are the 10 best ways to reprogram your subconscious mind:</b></p>
<ol>
<li><strong><em><span style="color: #0000ff;"><a style="color: #0000ff;" href="#way_1">Remove blind spots and limiting beliefs</a></span></em></strong></li>
<li><strong><em><span style="color: #0000ff;"><a style="color: #0000ff;" href="#way_2">Break the habits of the old self</a></span></em></strong></li>
<li><strong><em><span style="color: #0000ff;"><a style="color: #0000ff;" href="#way_3">Remap the mind</a></span></em></strong></li>
<li><strong><em><span style="color: #0000ff;"><a style="color: #0000ff;" href="#way_4">Strip back your personality</a></span></em></strong></li>
<li><strong><em><span style="color: #0000ff;"><a style="color: #0000ff;" href="#way_5">Expose and transpose emotions</a></span></em></strong></li>
<li><strong><em><span style="color: #0000ff;"><a style="color: #0000ff;" href="#way_6">Ditch the victim mentality</a></span></em></strong></li>
<li><strong><em><span style="color: #0000ff;"><a style="color: #0000ff;" href="#way_7">Brain and heart coherence</a></span></em></strong></li>
<li><strong><em><span style="color: #0000ff;"><a style="color: #0000ff;" href="#way_8">Recondition your body</a></span></em></strong></li>
<li><strong><em><span style="color: #0000ff;"><a style="color: #0000ff;" href="#way_9">Unravel your past, redesign your future</a></span></em></strong></li>
<li><strong><em><span style="color: #0000ff;"><a style="color: #0000ff;" href="#way_10">Elevate emotional states</a></span></em></strong></li>
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<h3 id="way_1">1. Remove blind spots and limiting beliefs</h3>
<p>Most books on masculinity will tell you what women want and how you can be a strong stereotypical man that gets everyone’s approval. The first thing you have to do is unlearn these beliefs. You need to clear your mind of all these notions society has built around what men should be like and what women want from men. Explore yourself, and become your own person!</p>
<h3 id="way_2">2. Break the habits of the old self</h3>
<p>There’s no skipping this step. First, you must be honest about who you choose to be through your habits.</p>
<p>And let me tell you why.</p>
<p>Becoming aware of your habits is the only way to make real and lasting change.</p>
<p>Otherwise, your life is a redundant group of automatic, unconscious thoughts, behaviors, and emotions played out in a repetitive cycle.</p>
<p>Your body becomes so familiar with these patterns that it becomes stagnant. Every encounter, every place, and every person you meet reaffirms the same responses. To change, you need to:</p>
<ol>
<li>Become aware of how you are responding to life’s events.</li>
<li>Find time in your day to detach from the world.</li>
<li>Gain back free will from the program of your life.</li>
<li>Start the day with a vision of how you want to live. To do this, you need to go beyond the analytical mind. This is what’s between the conscious mind and the subconscious mind.</li>
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<h3 id="way_3">3. Remap the mind</h3>
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<p>​​For this third way, you need to know that ​we’re not built to be one way our whole life— neuroplasticity research tells us this.</p>
<p>Humans have an extraordinary capacity to change and adapt.</p>
<p>Ask yourself this question right now:</p>
<blockquote><p>“What would it be like to be happy?”</p></blockquote>
<p>Close your eyes and visualize the answer in your mind.</p>
<p>What your brain has just undergone during that exercise is incredible. It called up different networks of neurons using your knowledge and experience. By piecing this visual together, it has created an intention.</p>
<p>Rehearse in your mind how your life is becoming, and it will build a map to the future.</p>
<p>Do this for an even longer timeframe and install the circuits that create this new future. So when understanding how to reprogram your subconscious mind, there’s a crucial hack you need to know…</p>
<p><b>The subconscious doesn’t know the difference between an experience and the emotions made by thought alone.</b></p>
<p>That’s why the internal process of rehearsing and imagining is so transformative.</p>
<h3 id="way_4">4. Strip back your personality</h3>
<p>In a nutshell, you need your <b>personal reality to affect your personality</b>.</p>
<p>Definitely not the other way around.</p>
<p>For far too many people, their environment controls their thoughts and feelings.</p>
<p>To create lasting change in the subconscious minds, people need to be greater than their environment. And also greater than the conditions that surround them in the world.</p>
<p>So how do we go beyond the environment?</p>
<p>We have to let go of the concept of linear time and drop into pure consciousness.</p>
<p>Even a couple of minutes of meditation every day can begin this process. However, to stop identifying with your personality, there are three tantric yoga steps to understand:</p>
<ol>
<li>Dharana— concentrate the mind.</li>
<li>Dhyanam— uninterrupted contemplation.</li>
<li>Samadhi— intense concentration where union with the divine is reached.</li>
</ol>
<p>And once we drop into this state, we move into the limitless consciousness of the quantum field around us. Scarcity falls away, and abundance exists in every aspect of life.</p>
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<h3 id="way_5">5. Expose and transpose emotions</h3>
<p>Know that the stronger the emotional reaction, the more people pay attention to the cause. <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emotion_and_memory" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Long-term memory and emotions</a> are highly linked. Let’s look into how the subconscious causes this:</p>
<ol>
<li>An emotional reaction occurs when you think you can’t control your thoughts.</li>
<li>If this lasts any longer, it becomes a mood.</li>
<li>Let this happen for an extended period. It becomes your temperament.</li>
<li>And longer again, it evolves into a part of your personality.</li>
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<p>So you can see then that one negative experience can create lasting damage to your whole bring— <b>if you let it. </b></p>
<p>In the limitless potential of the universe, it’s a shame to focus solely on the worst-case scenario.</p>
<p>We keep firing and wiring those circuits. Like operating on autopilot, a thought enters, and the program runs. You need to step into the river of change and get comfortable with discomfort.</p>
<p>Realize that the best way to create your future is from the unknown, not the known. Close your eyes and rehearse the action of what you want. The body doesn’t know the difference and stops replaying the past. Instead, it designs a map of the future.</p>
<p>You can’t wait for your healing to feel whole.</p>
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<h3 id="way_6">6. Ditch the victim mentality</h3>
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<p>Another toxic trait that can affect your dating and love life experiences is playing the victim. Most people start playing the victim in tough situations to find an easy way out— the same people practice this in romantic relationships too.</p>
<p>Various relationship consultants have emphasized the importance of owning up to your mistakes. Then, you can move forward and solve the problem instead of resorting to the blame game.</p>
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<h3 id="way_7">7. Brain and heart coherence</h3>
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<p>Having the brain and heart in coherence creates a magnificent state of wholeness.</p>
<p>The alignment means that you stop looking outside yourself for more. Now, that bicycle that overtook you on the way to work has little effect on your happiness. You also begin to finetune your ambitions to create the life you want.</p>
<p>The power of the subconscious mind is the link between the heart and the brain.</p>
<p>A heart-centered meditation such as a <a href="https://www.mindful.org/this-loving-kindness-meditation-is-a-radical-act-of-love/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Metta meditation</a> allows you to develop this connection.</p>
<p>Once the heart and mind move in conjunction, and not a game of following the leader, your emotions and thoughts no longer define your day-to-day life. And once you step out of the battleground of the thought-mind war, you are liberated and internally at peace. In turn, this opens your system up to lasting transformation.</p>
<h3 id="way_8">8. Recondition your body</h3>
<p>The body stores emotions, past experiences, and trauma.</p>
<p>All of these dramatically influence your thoughts, so reconditioning the body allows you to control how the subconscious mind responds in the present.</p>
<p>Tantra yoga is an ancient practice that improves focus and creates a deep connection to the body. Through Tantra, you will become adept at sending a message to the body to enter into a relaxed state when subconscious beliefs try push you back into negative thoughts and old ways of being.</p>
<p>It’s easy to tell someone to stay positive when facing their fears and to shatter old beliefs. But, having a Tantra practice brings you closer to your developing your masculine energy and resilience and builds confidence that you can attract and manifest a life of liberation.</p>
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<h3 id="way_9">9. Unravel your past, redesign your future</h3>
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<p>You’ve heard of cause and effect, but know that there’s a different way.</p>
<p><b>Enter: causing effect.</b></p>
<p>Feel abundance and self-worth, and you will start to feel and experience success.</p>
<p>Once you love yourself, you’ll find an equal in your romantic life. Your masculine energy amplifies, and you are more receptive to harnessing and learning sexual mastery.</p>
<p>All of this is about emerging out of the role of the victim. You’re switching the cards of your life and becoming the creator of your world.</p>
<p>How can you make this shift?</p>
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<li>It’s time to start defining yourself with visions of the future.</li>
<li>Meditation, which;
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<li>Reduces sensory information</li>
<li>Orders your mind and body to obey your will. Essentially, becoming master of your mind and body.</li>
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<p>When your body seeks to relive the familiar past, that’s when you need to step into unpredictability and rewrite the mind’s programming. Do this over and over again, and the subconscious mind becomes an agent of change within.</p>
<h3 id="way_10">10. Make it last</h3>
<p>Too many people shrink back into mediocrity.</p>
<p>To tap into the power of insight for self-empowerment, you have to leave behind the mind frame of scarcity and the emotion of stress.</p>
<p>All creatures can endure short-term stress. For example, a rabbit chased by a fox is designed to feel the stress response in the body, reach its warren, and let its body return to homeostasis.</p>
<p>When the brain and body are knocked out of balance, homeostasis brings you back.</p>
<p>However, for us, the coworker constantly gives us a rough time at work, and the stress persists. Our body struggles with the flood of stress responses.</p>
<p>Because no organism can live in stress mode long term. We’re talking about the downregulation of genes and the creation of disease.</p>
<p>It means our thoughts can make us sick.</p>
<p>But it also means that they can make us well.</p>
<p>Having a supportive group of men committed to creating an amazing life is the turning point for many guys. It gives lasting accountability and inspiration to reach your maximum potential. <a href="https://tantricacademy.com/how-to-reprogram-your-subconscious-mind/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">source</a></p>
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<h2><strong>Joe Dispenza on How To Reprogram Your Subconscious Mind – Transcript.</strong></h2>
<p>People wake up in the morning, they begin to think about their problems. Those problems are circuits, memories in the brain. Each one of those memories are connected to people and things at certain times and places. And if the brain is a record of the past, the moment they start their day, they’re already thinking in the past.</p>
<p>Each one of those memories has an emotion. Emotions are the end product of past experiences. So the moment they recall those memories of their problems, they all of a sudden feel unhappy, they feel sad, they feel pain. Now, how you think and how you feel creates your state of being. So the person’s entire state of being when they start their day is in the past. So what does that mean?</p>
<p>The familiar past will sooner or later be predictable future. So if you believe that your thoughts have something to do with your destiny, and you can’t think greater than how you feel or feelings have become the means of thinking, by very definition of emotions you’re thinking in the past. And for the most part you’re going to keep creating the same life.</p>
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<h2><em>So then people grab their cell phone, they check their WhatsApp, they check their texts, they check their emails, they check Facebook, they take a picture of their feet, they post it on Facebook, they tweet something, they do Instagram, they check the news, and now they feel really connected to everything that’s known in their life. And then they go through a series of routine behaviors. They get out of bed on the same side, they go to the toilet, they get a cup of coffee, they take a shower, they get dressed, they drive to work the same way.</em></h2>
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<p>They do the same things, They see the same people that push the same emotional buttons, and that becomes the routine and it becomes like a program. So now they’ve lost their free will to a program and there’s no unseen hand doing it to them. So when it comes time to change, the redundancy of that cycle becomes a subconscious program. So, now 95% of who we are by the time we’re 35 years old is a memorized set of behaviors, emotional reactions, unconscious habits, hardwired attitudes, beliefs and perceptions that function like a computer program.</p>
<p>So then a person can say with 5% of their conscious mind, “I want to be healthy, I want to be happy, I want to be free.” But the body’s on a whole different program. So then how do you begin to make those changes? Well, you have to get beyond the analytical mind, because what separates the conscious mind from the subconscious mind is the analytical mind. And that’s where meditation comes in, because you can teach people through practice how to change their brainwaves, slow them down. And when they do that properly, they do enter the operating system where they can begin to make some really important changes.</p>
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<h2><em>So most people then wait for a crisis or trauma or disease or diagnosis and they wait for loss, some tragedy to make up their mind to change. And my message is, “Why wait?” You can learn and change in a state of pain and suffering, or you can learn and change in a state of joy and inspiration. I think right now the cool thing is that people are waking up. Most people spend 70% of their life living in survival and living in stress.</em></h2>
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<p>They’re always anticipating the worst case scenario based on a past experience, and they’re literally out of the infinite potentials in the quantum field, they’re selecting the worst possible outcome and they’re beginning to emotionally embrace it with fear. And they’re conditioning their body into a state of fear. Do that enough times, body has a panic attack without you. You can’t even predict it, because it’s programmed subconsciously.</p>
<p>So people become addicted to the rush of those emotions and they use the problems and conditions in their life to reaffirm their limitation, so at least they can feel something. So now when it comes time to change, you say to the person, “Why are you this way?” Well, every time they recall the event, they’re producing the same chemistry in their brain and body as if the event is occurring, firing and wiring the same circuits and sending the same emotional signature to the body.</p>
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<h2><em>Well, what’s the relevance behind that? Well, your body is the unconscious mind. In a sense, if you’re sitting down and you start thinking about some future worst case scenario that you’re conjuring up in your mind, and you begin to feel the emotion of that event, your body doesn’t know the difference between the event that’s taking place in your world, outer world, and what you’re creating by emotion or thought alone.</em></h2>
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<p>So most people then, they’re constantly reaffirming their emotional states. So when it comes time to give up that emotion, they can say, “I really want to do it.” But really the body is stronger than the mind because it’s been conditioned that way. So the servant, now has become the master and the person all of a sudden, once they step into that unknown, they’d rather feel guilt and suffering because at least they can predict it.</p>
<p>Being in the unknown is a scary place for most people because the unknown is uncertain. People say to me, “Well, I can’t predict my future. I’m in the unknown.” And I always say, The best way to predict your future is to create it. Not from the known, but from the unknown. What thoughts do you want to fire and wire in your brain? What behaviors you want to demonstrate in one day?</p>
<p>The act of rehearsing, them mentally closing your eyes and rehearsing the action-</p>
<p>[Tom Bilyeu] Rehearsing the reaction of what you want or the actual-</p>
<p>Yeah, the action of what you want, by closing your eyes and mentally rehearsing some action. If you’re truly present, the brain does not know the difference between what you’re imaging and what your experiencing in 3D world. So then you begin to install the neurological hardware in your brain to look like the event has already occurred. Now your brain is no longer a record of the past, now it’s a map to the future.</p>
<p>And if you keep doing it, priming it that way, the hardware becomes a software program and who knows, you just may start acting like a happy person. Then I think the hardest part is to teach our body emotionally what the future will feel like ahead of the actual experience. So what does that mean? You can’t wait for your success to feel empowered. You can’t wait for your wealth to feel abundant. You can’t wait for your new relationship to feel love or your healing to feel whole.</p>
<p>I mean, that’s the old model of reality of cause and effect, waiting for something outside of us to change how we feel inside of us and when we feel better inside of us, we pay attention to whoever or whatever caused it. But what that means then is that from the Newtonian world is that most people spend their whole life living in lack, waiting for something to change out there.</p>
<p>[Tom Bilyeu] What do you mean the Newtonian world?</p>
<p>Newtonian world is all about the predictable. It’s all about predicting the future, but the quantum model of reality is about causing an effect. The moment you start feeling abundant and worthy, you are generating wealth. The moment you’re empowered and feel it, you’re beginning to step towards your success. The moment you start feeling whole, your healing begins.</p>
<p>And when you love yourself and you love all of life, you’ll create an equal, and now you’re causing an effect. I think that’s the difference between living as a victim in your world saying, “I am this way because of this person or that thing or this experience. They made me think and feel this way.” When you switch that around, you become a creator of your world and you start saying, “My thinking and my feeling is changing an outcome in my life.”.</p>
<p>And now, that’s a whole different game, and we start believing more that we’re creators of reality. And most people, when they have a thought, they just think that that’s the truth. I think one of my greatest realizations in my own journey was just because you have a thought, that doesn’t necessarily mean it’s true. So if you think 60 to 70,000 thoughts in one day, and we do, and 90% of those thoughts are the same thoughts as the day before.</p>
<p>And you believe that your thoughts have something to do with your destiny, your life’s not going to change very much because the same thought leads to the same choice, the same choice leads to the same behavior, the same behavior creates the same experience, and the same experience produces the same emotion. And so then the act of becoming conscious of this process, to begin to become more aware of how you think, how you act, and how you feel is called metacognition.</p>
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<h2><em>And so then why is that important? Because the more conscious you become of those unconscious states of mind and body, the less likely you’re going to go unconscious during the day. And that thought is not going to slip by your awareness unchecked, because you’re… It means to know thyself. The word meditation means to become familiar with. So as you become familiar with the thoughts, the behaviors, and the emotions of the old self, you’re retiring that old self as you fire and wire new thoughts and condition the body into a new emotional state.</em></h2>
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<p>If you do that enough times, it’ll begin to become familiar to you. So it’s so important. Just like a garden, if you’re planting a garden, you got to get rid of the weeds. You got to take the plants from the past year and you’ve got to pull them out. The rocks that sift to the top that are like our emotional blocks, they have to be removed. It’s soil has to be tenderized and broken down. We have to make room to plant the new garden. So primarily we learn the most about ourselves and others when we’re uncomfortable, because the moment you move into that uncomfortable state, normally a program jumps in.</p>
<p>When that program jumps in, it’s because the person doesn’t want to be in the present moment and engage it consciously. So if you’re not being defined by a vision of the future, then you’re left with the old memories of the past and you will be predictable in your life. And if you wake up in the morning and you’re not being defined by a vision in the future, as you see the same people and you go to the same places and you do the exact same thing at the exact same time, it’s no longer that your personality is creating your personal reality.</p>
<p>Now your personal reality is affecting or creating your personality. Your environment is really controlling how you think and feel unconsciously. Because every person, every thing, every place, every experience has a neurological network in your brain. Every experience that you have with every person produces an emotion. So some people will use their boss to reaffirm their addiction to judgment. They’ll use their enemy to reaffirm their addiction to hatred. They’ll use their friends to reaffirm their addiction to suffering.</p>
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<h2><em>So now they need the outer world to feel something. So to change then, is to be greater than your environment, to be greater than the conditions in your world and the environment is that seductive. So then why is meditation the tool? Well, let’s sit down. Let’s close our eyes. Let’s disconnect from your outer environment. So if you’re seeing less things, there’s less stimulation going to your brain. If you’re playing soft music or you have earplugs in, less sensory information come into your brain.</em></h2>
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<p>So you’re disconnecting from your environment. If you can sit your body down and tell it to stay like an animal, “Stay right here. I’m going to feed you when we’re done. You can get up and check your emails, you can do all your texts, but right now you’re going to sit there and obey me.” So then when you do that properly and you’re not eating anything or smelling anything or tasting anything, you’re not up experiencing and feeling anything, you would have to agree with me that you’re being defined by a thought, right?</p>
<p>So when the body wants to go back to its emotional past and you become aware that your attention is on that emotion, and where you place your attention is where you place your energy, you’re siphoning your energy out of the present moment into the past, and you become aware of that, and you settle your body back down in the present moment. Because it’s saying, “Well, it’s eight o’clock. You normally get upset because you’re in traffic around this time, and here you are sitting and we’re used to feeling anger and you’re off schedule.”</p>
<p>“Oh, it’s 11 o’clock and usually check your emails and judge everybody.” Well, the body’s looking for that predictable chemical state. Every time you become aware that you’re doing that and your body is craving those emotions, and you settle it back down into the present moment, you’re telling the body it’s no longer the mind, that you’re the mind, and now your will is getting greater than the program.</p>
<p>And if you keep doing this over and over again, over and over again, over and over again, just like training a stallion or a dog, it’s just going to say, “I’m going to sit.” And the moment that happens, when the body’s no longer the mind, when it finally surrenders, there’s a liberation of energy. We go from particle to wave, from matter to energy, and we free ourselves from the chains of those emotions that keep us in the familiar past. We’ve seen this thousands of times. In fact, we can actually predict it now on a brain scan. <a href="https://www.fearlessmotivation.com/2019/11/07/joe-dispenza-on-how-to-reprogram-your-subconscious-mind/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">source</a></p>
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<h2><span id="Breaking_The_Habit_of_Being_Yourself">Breaking The Habit of Being Yourself</span></h2>
<p>Check out the video by Neuroscientist and meditation expert Dr. Joe Dispenza who explains how to reprogram your mind:</p>
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<p>How many people actually believe in the idea that the way you think has some effect on your life.</p>
<h4><span id="The_way_you_think_has_some_effect_on_your_life">The way you think has some effect on your life?</span></h4>
<p>How many people actually believe in the idea that the way you think has some effect on your life. So how many people actually woke up this morning and <strong>consciously created a future</strong>? You know the biggest reason why people don’t do it is that you don’t really believe it’s true. You see if you knew on a gut level that it was absolutely true.</p>
<p><strong>Would you ever miss a day</strong>? And would you ever let any thought slip by your <strong>awareness</strong> that you didn’t want to experience?</p>
<p>So your brain, according to <strong>neuroscience</strong>, is organized to reflect everything you know in your life. Your <strong>brain</strong> is a record of <strong>your environment</strong>. So record an artefact of your past. So if you believe this then,  then does your environment control your thinking? Or does your thinking control your environment?</p>
<h4><span id="Environment">Environment</span></h4>
<blockquote><p><em><strong>“Or does your thinking control your environment?”</strong></em></p></blockquote>
<p>So if you wake up in the morning and you get out of bed on the same exact side as you did the day before.</p>
<p>You shut the alarm clock off with the same finger.</p>
<p>You slip into your favourite slippers, you shuffle into the bathroom and you use the toilet like you always do.</p>
<p>Then you walk over to the mirror and you look at yourself to remember who you are.</p>
<p>Then you get into the shower and you wash yourself in the same routine way.</p>
<p>You then groom yourself to look like everybody expects you to look and you go downstairs and you drink coffee at of your favourite mug.</p>
<p>Then you drive the work the same way as you did the day before.</p>
<p>You see the same people that push the same emotional buttons.</p>
<p>You do the exact things that you know how to do and you memorize and can do so well that you’re an expert at.</p>
<p>Then you hurry up and rush home so you can hurry up and check your emails so you could hurry up and go to bed.</p>
<p>So you’re going to hurry up and do it all over again.</p>
<h4><span id="Did_your_brain_change_at_all_that_day"><strong>Did your brain change at all that day</strong></span></h4>
<p>Now here’s my question. <strong>Did your brain change at all that day</strong>? We could say that you were thinking the same thoughts, performing the same actions that create the same experiences, that produce the same emotions, <strong>but secretly expecting something to change in your life</strong>.</p>
<p>So then as the environment turns on <strong>different circuits in your brain</strong>, you begin to think equal to your environment as you see the same people and go to the same places and do the same things at the same time.</p>
<p>It’s the external environment that’s turning on different circuits in your brain, causing you to think equal to everything that you know and as long as you think equal to everything that’s familiar or known to you, what do you keep creating more of? <strong>Same life</strong>.</p>
<p>Now the quantum laws still applying to you. You’re just thinking equal to everything that you know and you keep creating more of the same.</p>
<blockquote><p><em><strong>“To truly change is to think greater than your environment”</strong></em></p></blockquote>
<p>To change <strong>to truly change is to think greater than your environment</strong>, and every great person in history knew this. Whether it was William or Mahatma Gandhi or Martin Luther King or queen Elizabeth, the first or Joan of arc.</p>
<p>They all had a vision. They all had an idea, couldn’t see it, couldn’t smell it, couldn’t taste it, couldn’t feel it, <strong>but it was alive in their mind</strong>. It was so alive in their mind that they began to live as if that reality was actually happening now.</p>
<h4><span id="Personality">Personality</span></h4>
<p>So can you believe in a future that you can’t see or experience with your senses yet, but you’ve thought about enough times in your mind that your brain is literally changed to look like the event has already happened? Neuroscience says it’s absolutely possible now your personality, <strong>your personality creates your personal reality</strong>.</p>
<p>That’s it. It’s that simple. And your personality is made up of how you think, how you act and how you feel.</p>
<blockquote><p><em><strong>“Your personality creates your personal reality”</strong></em></p></blockquote>
<p>So the <strong>present personality</strong>, who’s sitting here today, you, has created the present personal reality called <strong>your life</strong>. Would you agree? Would you also agree then if you wanted to create a new personal reality that on a fundamental level you would have to change the thoughts that you’re thinking, the behaviours and habits that you’re demonstrating and the emotions that you’ve memorized, that’s become part of your <strong>identity</strong>?</p>
<p>And most people try to create a new personal reality as the same personality and it never works. We have to become somebody else.</p>
<p>So then as you keep thinking the same thoughts, performing the same actions and living by the same experiences that produce the same emotions. There’s a principle in neuroscience that says <strong>nerve cells that fire together wire together</strong>.</p>
<p>And if you keep repeating the same States of mind-body over and over again, your brain begins to fire in the same sequences, in the same patterns and same combinations.</p>
<blockquote><p><em><strong>nerve cells that fire together wire together</strong></em></p></blockquote>
<h4><span id="Mind">Mind</span></h4>
<p>And whenever you make your brain work in a certain way, that’s called mind. The mind is the brain in action.</p>
<p>So as you remind yourself every day who you think you are, you’re causing your brain to fire in the exact same ways. And as they fire and wire in the same patterns over time, the brain moves into a very finite signature. And that’s called your <strong>personality</strong>.</p>
<p>Now that box in your brain isn’t literally a box, but it’s the most commonly wired neurologically fired programs that run redundantly because we keep doing the same things over and over again.</p>
<p>To change your mind then is to make the brain work and <strong>new sequences</strong> and <strong>new patterns</strong> and <strong>new combinations</strong> to begin to make the brain work differently. And the one ingredient that allows us to do that is<strong> knowledge or information</strong> because every time you learn something new, you make a new connection in your brain.</p>
<h4><span id="Learning">Learning</span></h4>
<p>That’s what learning is. <strong>Learning is forging new connections</strong>. Remembering is maintaining or sustaining those connections, so now every time you have a thought, you make a <strong>chemical</strong> and a few have a great thought or an unlimited thought or a joyful thought, you turn on a set of <strong>circuits</strong> in your brain that fires in a very specific sequence, pattern and combination that produces a level of mind that turns on another part of the brain that makes a chemical for you to begin to feel exactly the way you are just <strong>thinking great</strong> or unlimited or joyful.</p>
<p>Now if you have a negative thought or an unhappy thought or a self-deprecating thought, you turn on a different set of circuits and a different combination, a different sequence in a <strong>different pattern</strong> that produces a different level of mind and the brain then begins to make a different batch of chemicals that signals the body for you to begin to feel exactly the way you were just thinking negative or unhappy or unworthy.</p>
<p>So the moment you begin to feel the way you think because the brain is in constant communication with your body, you begin to think the way you feel, which makes more chemicals for you to feel the way you think. Then you think the way you feel and then you feel the way you think. And then you think the way you feel. And some people do this for 20 or 30 or 40 years.</p>
<h4><span id="State_of_being">State of being</span></h4>
<p>Now, the redundancy of that cycle over time creates what I call a <strong>state of being,</strong> in a state of being is when your mind and body are working together or your thoughts and feelings are aligned to a <strong>concept</strong>.</p>
<p><strong>So thoughts are the language of the brain and feelings are the language of the body</strong>. And as people get caught in this cycle of thinking and feeling and feeling and thinking over time, they <strong>condition</strong> their body to memorize that emotion as well as the <strong>conscious mind</strong>.</p>
<blockquote><p><em><strong>“So thoughts are the language of the brain and feelings are the language of the body”</strong></em></p></blockquote>
<h4><span id="Habits">Habits</span></h4>
<p>And whenever the body knows as well as the mind, that’s called a habit. A habit is when your body is the mind. Now, 95% of who you are by the time you’re 35 years old is a set of <strong>memorized behaviours,</strong> set of emotional reactions, beliefs, perceptions, attitudes that run just like a computer program.</p>
<p>So 5% of your conscious mind begins to work against 95% of what you’ve memorized. So the person wants to think positively, but they’re feeling negatively. They want to create their dream board, you know, and put up their future life. But they feel unworthy. <strong>That’s mind and body in opposition</strong>. We have to recondition the body to a new mind.</p>
<p>So how many people know someone who’s memorized suffering and you say to that person, Hey, did you read the book I gave you? What do they say? No. Hey listen, we’re going to go out to dinner. We’re going to go see some standup comedy and go for a walk along the water. Do you want to come? No. What do they say?</p>
<p>I’m insisting on this neurochemical order that no person, no thing, no experience can move us from it.</p>
<h4><span id="New_state_of_being">New state of being</span></h4>
<p>And we have these <strong>three brains</strong> to allow us to move into a <strong>new state of being</strong>. And the quantum field, universal mind, whatever you want to call it, responds to who you’re being, not what you’re thinking, not what you’re feeling, but the combination of how you’re thinking and how you’re feeling called a state of being.</p>
<p>Now, most people wait for what crisis or trauma or disease or loss or, or a diagnosis to really want to change. They wait to the point where the ego’s brought to such a low level that they cannot go on business, as usual, any longer.</p>
<p>That’s when we begin to look at how we’re thinking or what we believe or how we act or attitude or what emotions we’re living by.</p>
<p>And my message is, <strong>why wait</strong>? We can learn and change in a state of pain and suffering, which tends to be the human model. Or we can learn and change in a state of joy and inspiration. <a href="https://www.fatrank.com/how-to-reprogram-your-mind/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">source</a></p>
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<h2>10 Best Ways to Reprogram Your Subconscious Mind – Tips by Dr. Joe Dispenza</h2>
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<h3><strong>Guided Meditations</strong></h3>
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<h3>Building Better Habits</h3>
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<h3><strong>Shifting Your Focus, Energy, and Attention</strong></h3>
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<h3><strong>Entering Theta Brain Wave State </strong></h3>
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<h3><strong>Positive Affirmations</strong></h3>
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<h3><strong>Visualization Exercises</strong></h3>
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<h3><strong>Mindfulness Practice</strong></h3>
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<h3><strong>Thinking Greater Than Your Emotions</strong></h3>
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<h3><strong>Build Your Self-Awareness</strong></h3>
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<h3><strong>Become More Present</strong></h3>
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<p><a href="https://youtu.be/yZE2Ct1EdUA?si=i4Hq7Q-adTVI46Z4">https://youtu.be/yZE2Ct1EdUA?si=i4Hq7Q-adTVI46Z4</a></p>
<h2 class="elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default">How to Reprogram Your Brain to Make You Superhuman – Dr. Joe Dispenza</h2>
<p>I am so beyond grateful for today’s guest, Dr. Joe Dispenza. His books and teachings were at the very beginning of my journey and completely shifted everything for me. I believe there are moments in life that impact you so deeply and you’re never the same. In this episode, I talk about that moment and how everything I looked at changed forever.</p>
<p>As an international lecturer, researcher, author and educator, Dr. Joe believes that each of us has the potential for greatness and unlimited abilities. This is why his passion has led him to educate thousands of people on how they can rewire their brains and recondition their bodies to make lasting changes. I can tell you firsthand that this is what he did for me. I truly believe his teachings were the beginning of rewiring the way I think. With a passion for neuroscience, epigenetics and quantum physics to explore the science behind spontaneous remissions and evolved consciousness. You will be blown away by Dr. Joe’s miraculous stories!</p>
<p>So please, get comfortable and listen to every single word of our incredible conversation and if this hooks you, I encourage you to go grab one of his books and read it!</p>
<h2>Question Highlights:</h2>
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<li>Did you always have this mind-body connection or do you feeling like it got awakened after your accident?</li>
<li>What advice do you give people who are in an environment that isn’t helpful for where they want to go?</li>
<li>How do you not take things personally or navigate that world of reflection?</li>
<li>Can you paint a picture of what it looks like when a person knows what to do but can’t quite visualize it?</li>
<li>What’s the connection between moving your body and getting into a new environment and accelerating that change?</li>
<li>Can you tell me about your events?</li>
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<h2>Quotes</h2>
<p>“It’s so much easier to forget our vision than it is to remember it.”</p>
<p>“We’re innately wired to be creators.”</p>
<p>“The power that made the body heals the body.”</p>
<p>“Your personality creates your personal reality.”</p>
<p>“If you’re not being defined by a vision of the future, then all you’re left with are memories of the past.”</p>
<p>“Wisdom is the memory without the emotional charge.”</p>
<p>“The unknown has never let me down.”</p>
<p>“My definition of the creative moment is when I forget myself.”</p>
<p>Joe Dispenza, D.C. is an international lecturer, researcher, corporate consultant, author, and educator who has been invited to speak in more than 32 countries on five continents. As a lecturer and educator, he is driven by the conviction that each of us has the potential for greatness and unlimited abilities. In his easy-to-understand, encouraging, and compassionate style, he has educated thousands of people, detailing how they can rewire their brains and recondition their bodies to make lasting changes.</p>
<p>In addition to offering a variety of online courses and teleclasses, he has personally taught three-day progressive workshops and five-day advanced workshops in the U.S. and abroad. Starting in 2018, his workshops will become week-long offerings, and the content of the progressive and advanced workshops will be available online. (To learn more, please visit the events section at: <a href="https://drjoedispenza.com/pages/events" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><b>www.drjoedispenza.com</b></a>.) Dr. Joe is also a faculty member at Quantum University in Honolulu, Hawaii; the Omega Institute for Holistic Studies in Rhinebeck, New York; and Kripalu Center for Yoga and Health in Stockbridge, Massachusetts. He’s also an invited chair of the research committee at Life University in Atlanta, Georgia.</p>
<p>As a researcher, Dr. Joe’s passion can be found at the intersection of the latest findings from the fields of neuroscience, epigenetics, and quantum physics to explore the science behind spontaneous remissions. He uses that knowledge to help people heal themselves of illnesses, chronic conditions, and even terminal diseases so they can enjoy a more fulfilled and happy life, as well as evolve their consciousness.</p>
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